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captions and the photos to accompany them (F/M, M/F) (you might like these photos and sayings)

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So many interesting statements seem to be travelling the tumblr universe...
They might be a good reminder to send to your loved one..

then again, it might be a group of girls being  bad so enjoy spanking them
followed by a wonderful task for this man..
(how can I apply to be a part of a video like this... and how much do I have to pay for the privilege?????)
and the inevitable bottom aching comparisons
On the other hand
so prepare to enjoy it
Can't you just see the enjoyment
 and remember
 so start blistering her backside
 and then continue with the panties rolled down
 and for males....
the look states it clearly
and your bottom will be roasted
so remember
bottoms up
Red

discipline spanking (F/M) / fucking

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Due to a difference in stress levels yesterday morning, and my wife not liking how I expressed myself... a spanking was promised... and given

Later that day, Cindy went to take a bath, and informed me to get a spanking implement.

I chose a cane, which would have Cindy see immediately, the results  of her efforts.

When she came out of the bath, she was annoyed that I was not standing in the corner, but realized she  had not asked me to do so... In future, I should assume that I should be standing in the corner, if she is taking a bath, and I was to retrieve a spanking implement.

I doffed my clothes, including the nice pair of see through pink and white Victoria Secret panties, which we have two pairs,one size medium for Cindy, and large for me.

I placed my hands on the bed, bent at the waist, and awaited the cane...
Cindy used it well, and I certainly felt it's sting and sharp pain. Cindy lectured while she caned, and that certainly does catch your attention. In all, maybe 20 or so strokes, on one small part of my bottom. My yelps and wriggling of my bottom after each stroke showed Cindy how effective she was being. When permitted to stand, I thanked Cindy for the spanking. I then asked if I could look in the mirror, and Cindy acquiesced. What I saw was a fiery part of my bottom, with the rest being lily white.

We then cuddled, kissed, fondled, and Cindy expressed an interest in FUCKING. Not certain how this is different from making love, but we gave it a good try. I moved Cindy onto the bed, a little strongly, and pinned her beneath me as I ground my erection over her clit and firmly caressed her breasts (not too roughly), and forced my tongue into her mouth... (please note that this is all consensual, and play where I am very aware not to hurt her in any way).

I then flipped her over where I kissed her bottom, and then licked and kissed up and down her ass cheek crack... S he is not really certain if she likes this, but had no choice (so to speak).... I then moved on top of her, and rubbed my cock up and down her crack, pausing at the doorway to her anus, and probing gently.... while verbally telling her that I was deciding whether to fuck her in the ass.... She was moaning and loving it, and responding no, please no, but in a gentle way of play acting, being forced into something she wanted but needing to pretend to protest.
[We would never do it without a lot of lube, and that was neither handy to the bed, nor has Cindy ever expressed a definite desire for me to enter her ass... ]
I then positioned my cock rubbing up and down her pussy, and then entered her strongly from this position, and fucked her hard and strong...

With all the excitement, I came first with a glorious orgasm, and then licked Cindy to a fabulous orgasm...

We have talked, and since Cindy has pegged me once,
she is interested and willing to be the recipient of anal sex. We have done it once, but maybe more than 30 years ago, and it was not successful then, but we are more competent lovers now...  and we won't do it in a rough sex manner, except the verbal part might be 'rough sex'

so, enjoy life..
bottoms up (has even more new meanigs than before
Red

cornertime re-visited

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a comment that was posted by Micheal of disciplined behavior that I meant to share as it's own post... This would be the link, but the comment is copied below...
http://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2010/05/corner-time.html


Corner time is very effective in controlling a DD partner.In our house it is used in two ways.

When I have been told to set out the punishment instruments for a discipline session at a specific time on a future date, then I know that I should wait in the corner at the appointed time.In this case I am in a T shirt and pants and I have to put myself in the corner of the room with my hands on my head and just wait. I have often been left waiting like this for over an hour whilst I could hear my partner moving around downstairs.The wait can be both pleasurable and agonizing. A twist on this procedure is when my partner arrives in the room and tells me to pack away the instruments because there will be no spanking or caning and that is the end of the punishment. This can be very frustrating for someone who is expecting to receive a hard thrashing.
 

At other times I might find myself ordered to the corner. This could be when I have said something out of turn or downright disrespectful to my partner. I remember one occasion during a wedding reception in a hotel where we had taken overnight accommodation.I had had one or two drinks more than I should and I was showing off at our table. My wife came over to me and whispered in my ear "corner time,bedroom,naked,now!".

I left the table immediately and went to our room. After nearly half an hour waiting my wife came to the room and pulled me over her knees. She spanked my bottom hard with a brush until I was struggling to get off. When she left the room she gave me two minutes to sort myself out and then rejoin the party.
I was on my best behavior for the rest of the evening. It transpired that my partner had told the other guests that I had a work problem and that I was away on the telephone.

Had they known the truth I am sure that one or two of the women at the reception would have applauded my partner's control over me. I certainly enjoyed the dancing later on when she was up close and personal, with her hand on my bottom, asking me if I was still sore.


Michael  http://disciplinedbehaviour.blogspot.com
Any comments... 
We occasionally use cornertime, and it is effective in establishing the mood of a dosciplinary spanking.
bottoms up
Red

raise your skirt day

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Well, whether true or false,
I had one person request I remove a raise your skirt photo that he claimed was of his wife, and a stolen photo. I believe the request WAS GENUINE.

Many photos are taken by a partner, for their own entertainment, but sh*t happens.
Your computer could die, and you have the photos restored by a company, and they get to see and copy(?) anything they want...
I ENJOY  THE LOOK OF JOY THAT THE WOMAN IS EXPRESSING WHEN TAKING THESE NAUGHTY RISQUE PHOTOS
AND WHERE OTHER UNSUSPECTING PEOPLE ARE NEARBY
and the same woman having more fun (same guys in the background)
This very nicely goes along with
some tumblr sites declaring June 22
as NO PANTY DAY.
of course, raise your shirt day must be just around the corner
I believe that people should be proud of their body
so am glad to post these photos
people of any age
Here are two sites you might like to visit...
but so many more exist..
if it helps ramp up your sex drive,
and keeps the spark alive,
then have fun
http://upskirtmeplease.tumblr.com/

http://upthatskirt.tumblr.com/archive
bottoms up  (skirts up)
Red

signs are everywhere of people having fun

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yesterday theme is being continued
 and I will get back to spanking soon
but not quite yet
Taking nude photos outdoors give an extra thrill to me, and somewhat to Cindy.....

She must like it a little, as she agrees to do it...
And all it would take is a spanking or two to say
Never suggest doing that again....
so here are a few
signs
of  the times
bottoms up
REd

Flash one breast only day (that is: National No Bra Wednesdays)

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continuousstateofdesire:  dirty-slash-nerdy: Anne Hathaway in Love And Other Drugs
This is the last posting on this theme for a while....
but REMEMBER
indoors or outdoors
 but some women are getting more daring
and flashing one breast
as their
first step
to a
complete
flashy
experiment
however, some ladies prefer national no panties day

so enjoy life, it's later than we think
bottoms up
red

blogger adult content

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Well, a new policy is coming to blogger, and I can NOT object to it. Many will, but I won't.

MY blog is for fun, and I do not in any way receive money for writing the blog...

The blogger service is FREE!!!

Some bloggers, myself included complain that blogger should have this or blogger should have that, but when you think about it..... (like drop down link lists)
BLOGGER costs Google financial resources (employees, servers, memory, networks, etc) to setup this service for FREE....

Why should individuals monetize in their own favor, when advertising adult themed and rated websites.,

SO, as far as I am concerned.... good job GOOGLE... keep blogger free for individuals, including people who have a small family run business that is NOT adult themed, and kick out for profit links to adult themed sites.

Here is the email sent to adult themed bloggers.



Blogger 
 
 

Important Update to Adult Content Policy on Blogger

 
You are receiving this message because you are the admin of a blog hosted on Blogger which is identified to have Adult content.
Please be advised that on June 30th 2013, we will be updating our Content Policy to strictly prohibit the monetization of Adult content on Blogger. After June 30th 2013, we will be enforcing this policy and will remove blogs which are adult in nature and are displaying advertisements to adult websites.
If your adult blog currently has advertisements which are adult in nature, you should remove them as soon as possible as to avoid any potential Terms of Service violation and/or content removals.
Sincerely,
The Blogger Team
 
 
  and may all the monetarists for pay to adult porn be spanked
read morehere if you are interested
http://news.cnet.com/8301-1023_3-57591293-93/google-takes-aim-at-adult-theme-blogger-pages-threatens-takedown/
BTW: I have gone through my links, and removed any that sale any product or services. Although I get no money from this blog, no use in having a potential problem... and also a number of links no longer worked, so they needed to be updated...
bottoms up
Red

Stockholm's male train drivers wearing skirts to work: TOO FUNNY

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Male train drivers in Stockholm skirt summer shorts ban

Male train drivers in Stockholm have circumvented a ban on wearing shorts in the summer by coming to work in skirts.

More than a dozen male employees working for the Roslagsbanan train services in the Swedish capital have been wearing skirts in order to keep cool.
One of the drivers, Martin Åkersten, explained that temperatures can hit 95F (35C) in the train cab during the summer.
Uniform regulations by the train company Arriva state that skirts or long trousers are acceptable. At a meeting last year, drivers were told that shorts were not allowed.
They have given their blessing to the men wearing skirts however.
"To say anything else would be discrimination," Thomas Hedenius, the communications head, told the local Mitti newspaper.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/sweden/10107704/Stockholms-male-train-drivers-wearing-skirts-to-work.html

The next day, the train services changed their mind, and will develop ASAP a shorts policy for workers....


Wonder if the men shaved their legs? I am reasonably certain they did NOT look like the male model at the right above.

Gender equality certainly makes sense  and a balance of rights is always good.

That is why this blog suggests that both men and women should be spanked when necessary if they misbehave, and also for the fun it will lead to.
bottoms up
Red

the doctor suggested the medecine

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and the nurse was only so very happy
to show your wife how to deliver  the prescription....
and your wife is overjoyed with the prospect
the demonstration
The prescription: spank his bottom daily
 and if the  hand is sore, get a friend to help out
 and, remember, your wife has many friends
and her sister even owns a paddle
bottoms up
Red

spanking at home

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Just a little note to say that earlier today (written on Saturday), Cindy suggested we go out for lunch, and maybe even dinner. She stated we should make it like a vacation day from the daily chores. My reply was agreeing, but suggesting lobster at home for dinner, and maybe a little spanking and a lot of sexual fun later in the day, and a movie in the afternoon.

Cindy replied to the spanking that I was so good that I do NOT need to be spanked... and went for her shower. When out of the shower, there was this pleasant voice asking me to come into the bedroom for a moment.

When I arrived, Cindy was standing wearing a towel, and holding the wooden hair brush....Cindy said actually their was something bothering her about my behavior, so pants down and get over my knee....
Bare bottomed, after displaying my panties,
over her knee for a brisk dose of the hairbrush, with a few pauses to explain why I was being spanked. One smart ass answer by me early in the spanking was a regretful slip on my part, that had an exceptionally strong flurry of spanks  in appreciation of my remark.
Before the spanking ended, my feet were dong the usual dance to the vocal music I was making to accompany the spanks....
When permitted to rise, I thanked  Cindy for the spanking.

Much later in the afternoon we made love wonderfully...

The lobster was excellent, and we did not go to the movie due to the afternoon entertainment.
PS: the pictures are from the internet, they are NOT pictures of us....
Enjoy Life
Bottoms up
RED

Cindy spanked

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Amazing as it may seem to those female lead relationships (FLR), the woman can sometimes be wrong... We are not a FLR situation, as we are in a consensual relationship.

Cindy for some reason yesterday, took a bit of a melt down over something that is not trivial, but is also not a melt down status problem.

The result was that I stated Cindy should be spanked, and she stated I do not agree.... I stated "come with me to the bedroom", and she followed stating she does not agree.

When we arrived in the bedroom, I undid her pants, and pushed them down, lecturing her on what had just happened. The panties were lowered and I sat on the spanking chair, and placed her over my knee,
but after a couple of spanks she complained that the position was not good, as she could not have her feet on the floor.
I had Cindy stand up, then moved and sat on the bed, and had her upper body placed totally on the bed, as I recommenced spanking her bare bottom. Cindy stated " I thought spankings were consensual", between some ohhing and owwing...
I replied that you know you should be spanked, so think about your behavior instead...

AHA!!!!!! MANY READERS WILL SAY.... SO MUCH FOR CONSENSUAL...

My reply: I did not force Cindy to follow me to the bedroom, and I would not have dragged her...
I could never have removed her jeans and panties without a struggle unless she permitted me... She could have gotten off my lap when on the chair and walked away...
She did not have to follow and bend over my knees when I sat on the bed...
She knew she was wrong, but, in my opinion, she needed to SLIGHTLY voice her objection to defend her honor... thus not admitting she was wrong...
After a number of spanks, I paused, and Cindy stated that she was going to spank me when I was finished spanking her... but made no attempt whatsoever to get off my lap.....
Let me tell you that if Cindy is mad (rarely happens), she is a force to be reckoned with and extremely strong)

I began spanking her again with my hand, doing a nice job of making her bottom quite pinkish red. I reminded her that she has a right to spank me whenever she wants.. and thus she has no right to a melt down... she simply has to send me to retrieve a spanking implement(s) and tell me to bare my bottom... It does not matter that I or she is right, if she feels  she is right, spank me...

A number of more spanks, and I stated she could now get up...
We kissed and hugged, but she made no mention of wanting to spank me.

Unfortunately, we did not make love that day, due to other circumstances, but will try to rectify that today...

The reason for the meltdown:
I do almost all of the laundry, and according to my methods. Cindy was upset that I had not washed her only gym outfit that she had put in the hamper. (It was to be the next load later that day)
It turns out that this is the only outfit she wears in very hot weather (shouldn't she have more than one I suggested while spanking her, as she has been out shopping numerous times in the past two weeks), and then it came out that she purchased this 2 to 3 years ago... Summers do get HOT! How many pairs of pants, culottes, shorts, caprees,  skirts.. and whatever other names of clothing does she have... I think somewhere in here she realized the quicksand she was standing on in defending her melt down.
I went to the track and did walking and jogging, and when jogging the heart monitor went screwy high (179) twice, so i am taking it easy for the next few days, and will try purchasing a better heart monitor, or else never jog again...

bottoms up
Red




a blog as a learning tool and also a spanking

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I am starting to try to experiment with different features, thus improving my mind by struggle and adaptation. As we all age, and learn we are not invincible (my heart attack proved the point for me), we need to do things to spice up life.
A history of heart attacks is on one side of my parents family, so mine might be genetic. However,I had  blossomed to 183 pounds in the morning when getting out of bed, and 186 when going to bed... the highest it has ever been.

I am now at 171 pounds this morning, and determined to get below 170  regularly.... So controlling what we eat, and exercise, is our method of hoping to live to a ripe old age.

Next worry, is that Alzheimer's was significant on the other side of my family.... So,instead of just copying and pasting pictures, it is time I start learning new things, besides travelling...


On long cruises I play bridge on sea days, and that is useful. Yesterday, I did my first attempt at using a previously constructed HTML for a drop down box, and tried to alter and place it in this blog. I adapted only slightly, as it was for a menu at the top of the screen, whereas I wanted it on the side panel. It has a bright yellow color to attract your attention. I have more postings than listed there about my being spanked, but after a while it is terribly monotonous to simply copy, paste, type text, back space on the blog, and then repeat...
I have been sent a far better way from Ronnie (A dear friend) from ronniesoul.blogspot.com
has a far better drop down box, so I will try adapting that for Cindy's spankings, and then redo the red's spankings...
As for spankings... yesterday had a short wooden kitchen stirrer spanking, about twenty spanks on the bare bottom that had me hopping.
On the love making department, we used a little bit of mild bondage while having a fabulous time together. Cindy tied each hand to the night tables on each side of the bed... and the end result was fantastic "O" each.

So, stay healthy, and young at heart...  and if a woman is reading this, try flashing your husband one breast when out in public somewhere, with no one around, and see what fun it might lead to....  MOST PARTNERS WILL LOVE YOUR FLIRTATIOUS EFFORTS, and if you like being spanked, this might guarantee another spanking and much more afterwards really soon.

bottoms up
Red

The Strapper

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Actually, this is a post about a bottle of wine, that I recently purchased....The name of the wine, from Australia, sounds delightful.   THE STRAPPER
I will let you know how it tastes, when we sample it's delights....
quite possibly, the title suggested to all you spankos...
 followed by

bottoms up
Red

caption day

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So many thoughtful captions are attached to pictures.

Do not argue, it will only be worse for your bottom
and when she enters the room, be certain to respond quickly
These come from a yahoo site that is in my yahoo groups 

So enjoy thinking about
the spanking being promised
or the spanking as a reward for being such a good boy.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/starstruckmooska1
bottoms up
Red

fun thoughts

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Today
just  remember to never assume
This thought
brings this thought to mind
and an eclectic series of thoughts
to hopefully make you smile
have fun
 and beware what you wish for
 not all women are not always this obvious
 but it could be fun
bottoms up
Red

f/m spankng photos

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Life has been busy, so simply a few photos for your enjoyment
so whether you take the high road when spanking

the usual
or the low road
 whether you just lie there
 or OTK at home

happy spankings
bottoms up
Red

Belated Happy 4th of July

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We have had family visiting,so I am rarely on the computer to post, so scheduled a number of posts in advance.

Thus, no  4th of July greetings UNTIL NOW, but
Maybe I waited to have these photos appear on the Internet
but I will give thanks to the flag and what it stands for EVERY day...
and these photos definitely show the colors in a very attractive setting..
However, my late posting does have consequences
learning is always slow

however, we only spank until there is RED and White, but definitely no blue bruising
bottoms up
Red

quickee thought for the day

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The thoughts of the day for a happy relationship and marriage
and it should be obvious that
Unlikely, but this should happen at every wedding ceremony
and if it did not happen, then maybe the marriage counselor will help
 as your wife learns the benefits of being fluent in hair brush language
so don't forget..
apply regularly and often
bottoms up
Red

ladies waiting to spank you

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Again, another quick post.. I truly enjoy pictures of this nature where the woman is smiling.

with a gleam in the eyes
where the look on her face is captivating, and then you see the hair brush she is holding
 or maybe your boss has called you into the office for a little discussion of your work habits
and when you ask your wife if she is ready to go out, and she replies all ready except one little thing to attend to first...please come here
 with any of these scenarios, the music that is about to be heard will be you yelping, not the piano playing
bottoms up
Red

boys will be boys

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A cute selection of photos....
could be titled
  they start young


with an appropriate thought to follow: come here
 bare his bottom
 and wallop it
and yet, when young, this condition may still exist after the spanking
smiling
bottoms up
Red
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