This has been an ongoing and interesting experiment, which was suggested by me as a ways for reducing Cindy's stress on the build-up to Christmas. (plus more benefits for both of us)
We have not been able, due to family visiting, and other activities, from actually doing this every successive day, but for quite some time it was two out of every three days.
It was my idea, and I thought starting with one spank would not be a worthwhile event. Day two would have three spanks, day three having six spanks, day four would have ten spanks.. Boredom could set in before reaching any significant spanking.
Thus, we started with twelve spanks with the long tawse. IT is a very effective implement, and the benefit was that Cindy knew she would only give twelve spanks, so she made certain that everyone was effective.
The next day, as you should read (if you planning on do this), had 12 spanks with the soup stirrer, and eleven with the long tawse. Thus Cindy wanted the soup stirrer to be effective, but she also wanted the tawse to be effective. (you can read about the other days by going further back in this blog's posts)
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THE FIRST WONDERFUL BENEFIT OF THIS TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS IS THAT CINDY HAS TAUGHT HERSELF HOW TO MAKE EVERY SPANK BE REALLY EFFECTIVELY FELT.
THE SECOND WONDERFUL BENEFIT IS THAT SHE HAS EXPERIMENTED WITH USING THE SAME IMPLEMENT DAILY, AND LEARNED HOW TO BE THE MOST EFFECTIVE WITH THIS IMPLEMENT.
THE THIRD BENEFIT: RAMPING UP CINDY'S DOMINANCE, AND MY SUBMISSIVENESS. Cindy is now enjoying having me move from one position to another for each implement, and visually how the implement is more effective in a specific position.
THE FOURTH BENEFIT IS THAT OUR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS HAVE SKYROCKETED THROUGH THE CEILING, EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD BEEN AT A WONDERFULLY HIGH LEVEL OF MUTUAL EXHILARATION prior to this sequence of spankings. However, we make love after every second and occasionally after the third spanking, as the combination of both spanking and sex is totally mind blowing, but also a wonderful exhaustion.
The FIFTH BENEFIT IS THAT CINDY REALLY REALLY ENJOYS SPANKING ME. SHE HAS A GRIN FROM EAR TO EAR AFTER THE SPANKING ENDS. This is from both the physical exertion needed to spank, the dominance, and the anticipated sex, or denial of sex for another day. She is TOTALLY IN CHARGE!
Proof of this happened yesterday. She remarked over breakfast how wonderful the sex had been last night, and she still feels wiped out by it. She stated:" I wanted to both spank you and make love, but knew I wouldn't have the energy for both." [key note: I WANTED TO SPANK YOU!!!!!!!]
Another benefit is that I am truly spanked, and my bottom is sore for a few days after this frequency and intensity of spankings began.
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The only deficit is that Cindy's stress was alleviated only for a few hours, but did not have a lasting effect. My sore bottom lasted longer than her being stress free.
I would suggest that everyone who is in a spanking relationship suggest this to their partner, but IT MUST BE THE SPANKEE THAT IS SUGGESTING IT. I would object to the spanker suggesting this, as the spankee has maybe little say in the ultimate acceptance or decline of this sequence. If the spanker does suggest, and the spankee agrees, maybe start with only one spank the first day, and grow into the total slowly... This would be much easier to have one's bottom recover during the twelve days.
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Lastly, it could be done anytime of year, which should be obvious... a way to pass the winter months, or a way to pass the time indoors during the heat of summer.
What are your thoughts on this topic? Please share whether you think this might be something you will discuss with your partner.
bottoms up
Red
We have not been able, due to family visiting, and other activities, from actually doing this every successive day, but for quite some time it was two out of every three days.
It was my idea, and I thought starting with one spank would not be a worthwhile event. Day two would have three spanks, day three having six spanks, day four would have ten spanks.. Boredom could set in before reaching any significant spanking.
Thus, we started with twelve spanks with the long tawse. IT is a very effective implement, and the benefit was that Cindy knew she would only give twelve spanks, so she made certain that everyone was effective.
The next day, as you should read (if you planning on do this), had 12 spanks with the soup stirrer, and eleven with the long tawse. Thus Cindy wanted the soup stirrer to be effective, but she also wanted the tawse to be effective. (you can read about the other days by going further back in this blog's posts)
THE SECOND WONDERFUL BENEFIT IS THAT SHE HAS EXPERIMENTED WITH USING THE SAME IMPLEMENT DAILY, AND LEARNED HOW TO BE THE MOST EFFECTIVE WITH THIS IMPLEMENT.
THE THIRD BENEFIT: RAMPING UP CINDY'S DOMINANCE, AND MY SUBMISSIVENESS. Cindy is now enjoying having me move from one position to another for each implement, and visually how the implement is more effective in a specific position.
THE FOURTH BENEFIT IS THAT OUR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS HAVE SKYROCKETED THROUGH THE CEILING, EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD BEEN AT A WONDERFULLY HIGH LEVEL OF MUTUAL EXHILARATION prior to this sequence of spankings. However, we make love after every second and occasionally after the third spanking, as the combination of both spanking and sex is totally mind blowing, but also a wonderful exhaustion.
The FIFTH BENEFIT IS THAT CINDY REALLY REALLY ENJOYS SPANKING ME. SHE HAS A GRIN FROM EAR TO EAR AFTER THE SPANKING ENDS. This is from both the physical exertion needed to spank, the dominance, and the anticipated sex, or denial of sex for another day. She is TOTALLY IN CHARGE!
Proof of this happened yesterday. She remarked over breakfast how wonderful the sex had been last night, and she still feels wiped out by it. She stated:" I wanted to both spank you and make love, but knew I wouldn't have the energy for both." [key note: I WANTED TO SPANK YOU!!!!!!!]
Another benefit is that I am truly spanked, and my bottom is sore for a few days after this frequency and intensity of spankings began.
The only deficit is that Cindy's stress was alleviated only for a few hours, but did not have a lasting effect. My sore bottom lasted longer than her being stress free.
I would suggest that everyone who is in a spanking relationship suggest this to their partner, but IT MUST BE THE SPANKEE THAT IS SUGGESTING IT. I would object to the spanker suggesting this, as the spankee has maybe little say in the ultimate acceptance or decline of this sequence. If the spanker does suggest, and the spankee agrees, maybe start with only one spank the first day, and grow into the total slowly... This would be much easier to have one's bottom recover during the twelve days.
Lastly, it could be done anytime of year, which should be obvious... a way to pass the winter months, or a way to pass the time indoors during the heat of summer.
bottoms up
Red