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Truly strong spanking for Red (strongest ever)

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Beware what you wish for, it just might happen. This is an expression that Cindy sometimes states.

As one commenter wrote, the previous spanking was effectively strong, but I still held on to the fantasy that I was right, but the problem was solved. Well, due to overworking in the garden, I was really exhausted and somewhat overwhelmed. Cindy had suggested we hire someone, but el cheapo (me), thought it would be great exercise to do it myself.

Suffice is to say we had another blow-up loud voice affair, before going to sleep.The next day, things had not improved, so i asked Cindy to give me a REALLY EFFECTIVE SPANKING, not holding back. Cindy agreed.

Cindy seated herself on the spanking chair, while I obtained the wooden bath brush from the Vermont Country store (they no longer carry it, as maybe they had too many sales), and realized it's real intended use, and the short tawse.

Bare bottom OTK, Cindy applied the bath brush slowly, and intensely, snapping the wrist fro more speed, and bringing it downwards to my bottom with a purpose. Each spank caused an owww, and quickly my feet were dancing while she methodically spanked away. Visiting one cheek, then the other, then the back of the legs for awhile, then many in one spot. Cindy paused a couple of times to state: "are you holding your breath?, I need to hear you breathing!", then continued the spanking. This was the hardest Cindy has ever spanked me,  and during one pause, she reminded me that as much as she does not want to hurt me, this is what you asked for!

My bottom and back of the legs were on fire when she finally stopped, and placed the bath brush on the floor, and had me hand her to TAWSE which was beside my hands on the floor.

This tawse makes my feet dance, when used with average intensity from the first spank. It was now used with strength, on a terribly sore bottom. Fast hard spanks had my feet dancing, my vocal chords working, and my body squirming on Cindy's lap. Too many spanks were given for me to have counted, nor was my brain working, just absorbing the spanks.

The tawse wrapped at times, and other times it was connecting on the closest cheek only, thus the area between my cheeks was well spanked also.

When Cindy finally was satisfied that this was "AN EFFECTIVE SPANKING", I was permitted to stand, and immediately thanked her. I was permitted to look at my bottom, and due to the position over her knee, the top part of my bottom was still white.

This oversight was immediately corrected! Standing slightly bent over, Cindy rapidly gave full throttle spanks with the tawse at the upper area, which is normally a virgin spanking area, being rarely spanked. After eight or nine rapid spanks, I bounced forward losing my balance a little from the intensity of the spank. Back in position, the next was even worse, and again I stumbled forward.

At this point, Cindy decided that this was enough, and all was forgiven.
From these two photos, you can see that the spanking went below the crease where bottom meets legs, and also quite high up, that can only be spanked by  NOT USING WOOD!

My bottom was hot all evening, and still quite red the next day.

In using a scale from 1 to 10 where one is very mild, and 10 is the strongest spanking possible, i informed Cindy I thought this was an 8. I hope never to have to experience a 9 or 10, but if Cindy had continued with the short tawse for another dozen, this would have made it to a 10. They were astoundingly effective.

I can only imagine that if all the Tawse spanks were given with me standing, and with this strength and with the long tawse,Cindy would surmount the 10 classification.

I think I have found the easiest implement for Cindy to use effectively (the long tawse), and the best position (standing, slightly bent over or bending over some item like a table for support, that if Cindy wants to give a strong strong spanking, that will be the easiest way for her to accomplish the task.

All was well and no problems now exist. We have removed the stress, and will continue to have a wonderful life.

No loving making that day or the next, but today it was absolutely wonderful!

Spankings will probably be much more effective in our home.I am still feeling the spanking more than three days later, and earlier today when I came out of the shower, Cindy stated my bottom was PINK!!!!
truth for today
bottoms up
Red

summer is arriving soon, let the beach fun begin

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UPDATED: My opinion:
In our more open society, where burkas are not the norm, beach fashions have evolved.

Women and men of all ages like to be admired and thought of as attractive, and thus displaying a portion of a woman's body (younger than 18 with hopefully parent's approval) is wonderful.

The fashion now shows more of a woman's bottom, and many people find this delightful (not just spanksters). Attention is more focused by the bathing suit, than if one was at a nudist beach.

SO, as much as we might think of spanking some of these ladies, NO means NO, so we will all simply enjoy pleasant dreams.

It is always delightful to see women on the beach... Bathing suits display beautiful bottoms of all sizes and shapes.

Here is a collection  of beach views


 so little material, but so high a cost for those swim suits
ladies obviously know how they look when they purchase these bathing suits, and men are appreciative of their choices
lovely
great form on that paddle board in the above photo
Many a man could suggest another method of making those cheeks feel warm and toasty
delgihtful
if you have it, flaunt it..












but if you want, their is always the clothing optional beach on St. Martin...

then again, who needs to wait for the beach, when you can have fun anywhere



bottoms up
Red

adventurous tuesdays (fun sexual quotes)

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Well, this is NOT adventurous, but hopefully it is quite common in your relationship...
Ladies...it is easy to get your man excited....
 yummy
 so delightfully playful
it should go without saying, that besides being spanked relives stress, so does sex relieve stress.
men should always remember to



and always  trEAT

and ladies might like to consider this idea!

and my wish to you.
but ...
nothing is perfect
 and...
bottoms up
Red

spanking evolution

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Many of us had the desire to be spanked long before we broached the topic with our partner.
We know that sometimes problems are solved easily with a little tenderness and love, but sometimes

Spanking evolves: We become more demanding in our desires, hoping that our partner will come to enjoy spanking us, not simply doing it as a chore or doing it for me. Our partner is doing it for our relationship to regain an even balance when something we have done has caused problems.

and as more times evolves
http://beautiful-when-she-s-angry.tumblr.com/
a happy spanker is our goal in a spanking relationship... your partner is problem solving
and here is the best definition for our wives (if they spank their partner)
but always remember
http://beautiful-when-she-s-angry.tumblr.com/
one spanking is sometimes not enough..i learned eventually the following exact situation
men will always be men,  and spankings are always necessary
I do not approve of flying the confederate flag, but the above is FUNNY to me...
bottoms up
Red

taking advantage of an empty house (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Spanked_by_their_Wives/)

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Bewilderment!!! A person (Kay) left a comment on a posting about Erica Scott's blog, and as usual I went to the comment to reply. The  posting was not there???? I have since found out that blogger has at sometime  changed from 6/12/10 to 12/6/10....  No idea when this happened.

However, I found  this draft from 6 years ago, that was never posted, so it is fun for me to read, and it is a link to an excellent group.
Enjoy...
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It is always interesting to read a few postings from different spanking groups on Yahoo. One group I enjoy reading is:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Spanked_by_their_Wives/
On this group, the moderator posted this little happening, and I thought it might generate some discussion.

The problem many spankers have is keeping it from being known by the children and neighbors. Privacy is key, and unless you build a sound proof room, privacy is sometimes rarely available. We really do not worry while on vacation, if no family is with us. What the bell-hop or cabin steward hears is not a problem for us, and the neighbors in the next cabin can get an earful whether it is from a spanking or fantastic sex afterwards.


The problem is at home, and this little posting is exactly what we do whenever the opportunity comes by, and the need or simply the desire for a spanking occurs.




"Now that school is back in session, our two teenage sons are out the door by 6:45. My wife took advantage of that fact this morning, by giving me a painful OTK with her round wooden spoon. She also instructed me to sweep and wash the kitchen floor and hallway since today is one of my days off this week.

I am not spanked as often as I once was, and these days being spanked REALLY hurts! Perhaps this is because my wife hasn't been using any sort of "warm-up" to ease me into things. No, on the handful of occasions she has spanked me in the last few months, she has simply bared my bottom and applied her paddle. I'm dancing on her lap from the first few swats, and it isn't long before I'm pleading with her to stop.

Anyway, I have a floor to do and the day isn't getting any younger.""
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Cindy recently used a wooden spoon for simply two hard spanks, and stated they weren't as satisfying as another implement we have. I really had felt them, even though they given with me wearing jeans. I lowered my pants and Cindy was amazed how red each spot was. "MMMM. maybe they were effective" she stated.

I looked maybe an hour later in the mirror, and the two spots were still bright red. Cindy may be considering use this implement more often.

I recommend this yahoo group to you. The photo and captioned drawing are from this site.
cheers
Red

the view and the result of a spanking

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The view you have just before you bend over the lap....
becomes more worrisome when the implement is displayed
 and although you might be distracted for a second, the paddle becomes all that you see..
she then gets to see your bare bottom, and have fun lecturing about how silly you look, a grown man, having his underwear being taken down so that he can be spanked...
then a strong hand warm-up
that is totally effective
followed by the brush, and bringing a smile to your partner's lips
as she has to restrain your feet from dancing so much you fall off her lap...
How CAN YOU TELL A MAN LIVES HERE!!!
and here are his loafers
bottoms up
Red

beware what you wish for..

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 Every reader has quite probably requested their partner should spank them when they are upset....
but are never truly prepared for a serious spanking...
Only a few words seal your fate....
I wonder what implement do you find the most frightful if used for a serious spanking....
A wooden brush?
A wooden Bath brush?
a paddle?
a belt?
a calm determined spanker?
the wooden spoon?
a Tawse?

whatever it is, do not delay, becuase your partner will just get ANGRIER!
bottoms up
smile much later
Red

mature spankers

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As many readers of this blog are married and some for quite some time, it is always good to see older women spankers, as opposed to young chicks...
These ladies are in their thirties and beyond
and hopefully I never meet any of them
as they might be unhappy with this post
and the  consequences
might be rather daunting

 time for your spanking
bottoms up
Red

the cane awaits

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Some days, your fate is sealed before you even say a word. One simple finger lets you know not to object.
and you wonder
The look of determination determines you best bare your bottom immediately
and your partner shows you it will be the short cane today
and that it's flexibility will be amazingly effective
but maybe she will enjoy the look on your face as your eyes meet, as you dare not look at the cane
 so young, so sweet, and so DETERMINED
 and you will be rising onto your toes in no time
possibly a look of disdain at your trepidation
even outdoors, you are not safe from the wrath of the cane
best bend over and acquiesce 
whether you were born long ago and remember
or are newly introduced by  your wife to being caned
best to brace yourself a little
or maybe simply flop over the sofa so that you can maintain position
oh NO! it's about to start
bottoms up
Red

spanking thoughts for today

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A little post for your amusement
and women's bottoms, from my point of view, are more interesting to view than men's bottoms
and remember:
and as many a woman and man has stated:
keep smiling
your wife is not pleased.. bottoms up
A VERY TRUE THOUGHT
and for all those ladies out there, remember practice makes perfect
bottoms up
Red

the baring: being submissive

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One should always have fun in life, so I quite enjoy this picture of a woman smiling while baring a man's bottom
although the man might not be smiling..
One must be acquiescing and submissive if you stay stationary, bent over, while ones bottom is being bared

|Of course, she may look you in the eye to show her control
and then tell you to keep looking forward while she enjoys looking at your cock, and maybe a few comments about it,
she might even be surprised at your erection when you know you are about to be spanked
but will simply change the paddle to her spanking hand, open her legs for you to tuck yourself between them when you bend over her knees,  because this spanking will be given
She may even be delighted to see your erection,as Cindy is, but then exclaim what a shame it is going to disappear as I spank you!!

This picture I love. A very sweet and sensual kiss, that says I love you, prior to the spanking!
The spanking is going to be REAL
The wooden bath brush will be EFFECTIVE
and by the time the spanking finally ends
Your erection will have long since disappeared
but always remember it can be revived.
bottoms up
Red

10,000,000 hits to this blog

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AMAZING...


I first started this blog on October 19, 2009
https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2009/10/first-post.html

Since that post, their have been additional 1929 different posts, so it has been a work of love.

Many people have posted comments over the years, and some have been doing so for quite some time.I thank each and every person for taking the time by leaving a comment about their lifestyle in the spanking world

The title attracts many people, because most are looking for some version  of consensual spanking. With tongue firmly planted in cheek, might I say it attracts a more literate part of society, because spelling consensual is not easy.

There is a core of spanksters out there participating in The Thing We Do (TTWD), who enjoy all things spanking, and some enjoy reading and looking at pictures of the man predominately being spanked.

We are not that rare of a breed, as with google searches on domination for hire, the vast majority (if not almost exclusively) are women offering their services to spank people. Rarely will you find a man being hired to spank a woman. I imagine it is because so many men would volunteer to accept the task, that no woman would ever need to pay for the service required. [Note to all women readers: I will happily give you a spanking: just write privately to me, and I am certain Cindy will watch, then give me a very strong spanking after I have spanked you! That is a wonderful description of a WIN/WIN scenario.]

Using google stats from blogger for this blog, the top fourposts are
EntryPageviews
Dec 5, 2010, 74 comments
50337
35836

28299
21196


So whether you come here for the art
I intend to post about KDPIERRE, who has some great artwork,  and his main site is
http://collectedsubs.blogspot.com
It is late at night, and I hope I have it right now... more later..
The dominant photos where you have no choice but to submit
and can imagine yourself in one of the roles
The captions and cute female red bottoms
or the spankings
or my attempts at humor
fun thoughts... 
cute woman bodies flashing
This lady is just asking you to spank her
and a quick boob flash is fabulous
 so, whatever brings you to my blog, you can use me!

THANKS FOR DROPPING BY
bottoms up
Red

Be careful with your TUMBLR blog

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It is sad,when all your fun goes up  in smoke,so to speak. My take on this is that some video that was posted was copyrighted, and that lead to the demise of a wonderful tumblr.  But really, almost every tumblr shows copyrighted material, all the time.

The author of spanked2tears wrote the following to me...

Dear Red,

I awoke this morning to an email from Tumblr stating that my F/M spanking blog, "Who's Sorry Now?" Had been terminated due to terms of service violations. With over 2500 postings and 5000 followers, I'm feeling gutted. I've appealed, but it seems hopeless. I just wanted to put out a note that I'll  try to rebuild under a new account when I have the time to do so.

Thanks,

SPANKED2TEARS

I wish these ladies could have a few minutes with whoever canceled the tumblr stated above



bottoms up
Red

This brush will do the talking

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I was remembering a song when seeing some captioned photos of women about to spank their partner...
The song : these boots are meant for walking, and that's just what they will do, and one of these days these boots are going to walk all over you..
This brush is meant for talking
and that's just what it does
and today is the day
this brush
will walk
all over your bottom

All captioned photos are from   http://zatilla.tumblr.com
bottoms up
Red

Raised voice.. bottom spanked

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I sometimes get anxious or frustrated, and respond by talking more forcefully. This might be due to the fact my hearing is not as clear as it once was, but still quite good.

It may also be a reaction to my years of officiating, where many times you have to project your voice  to be heard at a distance.

Cindy is fed-up with it, and has started her own method of curtailing this.

As all have already guessed, Cindy just now says "BARE YOUR BOTTOM", as she goes and picks up one of the wooden kitchen implement..
Bending over the kitchen counter, Cindy has learned to take her time, and make it a much more meaningful and effective spanking, so that I start to modify my ways.
This type of spanking seems to occur early in the morning, in the kitchen, when I am sometimes groggy and not fully  awake. I will have to re-think, and maybe take some time washing my face, and even shower, so that I am fully awake. I used to always shower first thing, shave, then go to breakfast, but that changed when I retired, as sometimes I might go to the gym, work in the garden, or other things that I would shower afterwards.
The spanking took a while! I was raising on my toes, and shifting position slightly with my bottom to maybe not have that spot spanked again. However, when the next spank landed, it was equally effective.

Slow learners get spanked often! 
The above statement also gets your ass bitten!
This also applies to when you get married!
bottoms up
red

the view

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A little fun collection of implements that will catch your attention
The belt is all you see
determination, and definite intimidation
 You are no longer looking at her eyes, and soon the bath brush will  get your real attention
waiting patiently for you to undress
your words will mostly be grunts and owwws
yikes
and now the party begins
your feet will dance
and your wife will smile
 but slowly you will learn how to be a better person
thus
bottoms up
Red

Spanking thoughts for the day

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Possibly, a man is careless DELIBERATELY

and when it finally happens later, you LEARN the reality that spankings hurt
she might ponder these words about your situation
Just consider yourself lucky that it happens, and doubly lucky if she enjoys spanking you, like this woman is enjoying the task...
and remember...
smile, imagine if you did this, and the spanking you would get when you get home! (your wife might even announce to the waitress that she intends to spank you as soon as we are home, and then add " he gets spanked regularly! Is that not correct, husband, or would you like to add lieing to your punishment.
bottoms up

Red

first or second

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Fantasy Tuesday :
If you knew that both you and your friend were about to be spanked, which would you prefer
watching, you see the spanking, see your friend reacting, an know what will happen to you shortly
then it is your turn to lower your pants and underwear
knowing your friend is watching, and knowing a lot more spanking is in your immediate future
It might even be more frightening, if you have been informed that after you have both been hand spanked, the hair brush will be used, so you are standing, awaiting your next spanking.
thus, do you want to be spanked first
 or await?
might this man's reaction cause yo to wish you were first and your spanking would be done sooner...
choices: if you were int his situation, you would not be given the choice
bottoms up
red

summer time is switching time (part one)

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The weather being warm in most parts of the world, this is the perfect time to send that special deserving someone out to cut a few switches to use on their bottom.
The question would be whether you have to go with your pants around your knees to fetch them
with only your panties on to protect your modesty and bottom
or are you sent bare bottomed with no pants whatsoever
Do you have to choose
and then ask if this would be acceptable
then bare your bottom immediately
or have the first leaves grown on the switch, and thus you must prepare them first
 that looks like a truly sturdy switch
all is ready 
bext always to take your punishment when offered, it will only be worst later.
bottoms up
Red

switching part two

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More photos to stimulate your imagination...
the resigned look as she chooses a switch

whereas this fine lady is trying to charm you into not giving her a spanking
or, in this photo, did she pick really prickly switches to switch you with, as the determined look means you are in trouble! 
You have been told to tie them together, bare your bottom , put pillows below your groin to raise your bottom, and WAIT
a single switch might be used
or multiple switches tied together
which ever method is used, your bottom will soon be fire engine red
 art from yesteryear shows a long tradition in chastisement
but, fortunately, the modern woman has a cane readily available, no matter what season.
keep smiling

bottoms up
Red
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