never go to bed angry

July 26, 2015, 5:00 am

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A hint to have a good marriage is to  never go to bed angry.
As one comedian stated:

"we never go to  bed angry

  One time we were up for 8 months"

an alternative solution

Slowly,

men learn

bottoms up
Red

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being undressed for a spanking (the view)

July 27, 2015, 5:00 am

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Cindy has always professed a sorrow that my erection is about to disappear, when I am about to be spanked. I always reply that it can easily be revived later. 
A new site has a tremendous amount of these type of photos

They show the view that a seated woman has

when she has bared a man's bottom

and she may well be smiling to herself

but, with a determined look

That this man deserves a strong spanking

and that the site of his penis (whether erect or limp)

will not deter her from her mission

When younger, my penis would always be erect

but as age advances, I arise to the situation most times

but not always

I will not name the site, as it's premise is spanking boys. Fortunately, outside of the artwork, no children are shown in the tumblr.

european advertisements (adventurous tuesdays)

July 28, 2015, 5:00 am

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This one was too good not to take a photo.

Enjoy the thought

so much for Google translate:
this becomes gladjeflicken out now
bottoms up
Red

being undressed for a spanking (not looking at the view)

July 29, 2015, 5:00 am

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A determined woman, intent on spanking you

has no interest in your  manhood

She may completely ignore it

or intently look you in the eye

emphasizing her control over you

even better if she looks at her friend while pulling your underwear down

but if she truly wants to ignore it, she will simply have you over her knee when she lowers ypour underwear.

hope you are enjoying the prep
bottoms up
Red

being undressed for a spanking (admiring the view)

July 30, 2015, 5:00 am

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If the gaze lingers

surreptitiously 

or with a lingering gaze

the spanking will be even more enthusiastic

when you are over her knee

and she intends to prove she was not distracted

as you hoped would happen

rest assured, the finger will soon point where you are wanted

and as the brush descends

the dance will begin

bottoms up
Red

FREE THE NIPPLE!!!!!!!!!

July 31, 2015, 5:00 am

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Recent events in a city called Kitchener in Ontario, Canada brings this topic once again to our awareness.

http://kitchener.ctvnews.ca/topless-sisters-fight-for-their-right-to-bare-breasts-1.2490173 

In 1991, Guelph student Gwen Jacobs was arrested while walking home from class topless, she was charged with committing an indecent act.
She fought the charge and won the right for all women in Ontario to expose their breasts.
Now, a police officer in the area told three women to cover up recently.

The topic is difficult.

Yes, women should be permitted to go topless, and not be ogled, but that is not the current society we live in.
However, this article is worth reading:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/27/free-the-nipple_n_6956978.html

 is the nipple partly covered allowed

here is Miley Cyrus

Facebook removes topless photos of women!
My viewpoint:
Women should be allowed to walk topless, anywhere that men  are permitted to walk topless.
However, men will interpret the action as exciting, at least in North America, but not nearly so much in Europe, where topless at the beach is quite normal, and nude beaches are commonplace.
Live and let live, without imposing your standards on everyone.

In terms of spanking:
I have decided to show my bared spanked bottom at times. My bottom used to be much firmer in my youth, as with everyone else. The reason is to show that the spankings are real, and not just models on websites that have beautiful bodies are spanked.
I challenge all other spanking bloggers  to post a photo (maybe even regularly) of their spanked bottom, either bare, or while wearing a thong, or see through panties. If you do, send me a link to the post, and I will include it in a future post

.All of our bodies are not fashion model beautiful, but each and everyone of us is beautiful...

bottoms up
Red

August 8 is Consensual Spanking Day: : are You READY?

August 2, 2015, 5:00 am

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The idea of celebrating our love of spanking must have started on some site, but I have not been able to find the original idea posted somewhere. A few sites denote it as July 3rd, maybe fireworks beofre July 4th USA celebrations.

So, if you agree with a  CONSENSUAL SPANKING Day celebration, consider setting up a post for that day in advance, and scheduling the post to appear on August 8th

Here are some links to blogs and other sites that celebrate spanking that is consensual!

http://ronniesoul.blogspot.com/2012/08/happy-spanking-day.html?zx=dded446e9762fff1

hermionesheart.blogspot.com/2012/08/wednesday-win-consensual-spanking-day.html?zx=c7b8ba12ff75801a

https://thecanery.wordpress.com/2012/08/08/today-is-consensual-spanking-international-day/

http://solemnlyswear-uptonogood.blogspot.com/2011/08/consensual-spanking-day.html?zx=f4a2d343cad3bca5

 http://herpaddle.blogspot.com/2010/08/consensual-spanking-day.html?zx=227ad647a292502e

http://dazzledent.tumblr.com/post/94202814352/to-commemorate-consensual-spanking-day-2014-4-of

https://ddanddswife.wordpress.com/2012/08/08/consensual-spanking-day/

musingsofabottom.blogspot.com/2012/08/back-to-school-celebrating-consensual.html?zx=85b8913b11b371b

http://aspankedwifesphotoblog.blogspot.com/2015/01/consensual-spanking-day-tomorrow-august.html?zx=24f916e0d51eaef4

http://shadesoferoticpoetry.blogspot.com/2014/08/happy-spank-day.html?zx=1493a6352670b8c8

http://adomesticdomme.blogspot.com/2011/08/did-you-celebrate-88.html?zx=ab80b54ac022513d

One site (not listed) disparages the idea that a separate day should exist to celebrate our fetish, and I do agree that any day is a good day for a spanking, but a special day for a special spanking is WONDERFUL!!!

bottoms up
Red

humor- the difference between men and women

August 3, 2015, 5:00 am

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This cartoon is hilarious, as we see the difference between men and women!

Really, women always obsess about their weight, whereas men obsess about how great they look in the mirror

and, really, in looking at spanking blogs: when you see a picture: 

whose spanked bottom would you like to see?
Ronnie's (taken from her blog a long time ago) Marvellous

 or mine

Ronnie's absolutely wins the contest.

and another smile for today

and a thought to ponder

bottoms up
Red

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F/M spanking tumblrs

August 4, 2015, 5:00 am

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I am always amazed when I click on links, to see just how many F/M spanking blogs exist on tumblr.
http://spankedbywomen.tumblr.com
Only active for two months, but with a wonderful collection of focal point month of June photos

the shoe

http://monsieurclaudespank.tumblr.com has a mixture with a significant number of F/M, but also some other items designed for a different audience

she may be saying you are NEXT

http://lildragoncub.tumblr.com

http://girlsindommesclothing.tumblr.com

http://menarenaughty.tumblr.com

Enjoy travelling the F/M spanking world also.
bottoms up
Red

Adventurous Clare Fonda

August 5, 2015, 5:00 am

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Clare is a very beautiful and interesting person, and I have read some interviews with her.
http://www.cherryredreport.com/2014/02/17/guest-blogger-clare-fonda-top-5-reasons-spanking/
Today, however, I just thought I would post some photos of Clare.., where she gets to enjoy being spanked

She is willing to have her bum bared for a spanking

and happily return the favor

or simply be given a good hand spanking, first trying to object to the spanking

however, becoming more accepting as the spanking progresses

simulated or possibly real feet movement

and ending up with a well spanked bottom

She is willing to display her gorgeous body

submit to a bit of mouth soaping

and are her feet being tickled (that might be the worst punishment)

but a really red bottom is wonderful

even if it brings one close to tears (but are they real)

maybe after this post, Clare might request me to "volunteer" to be one of the men she spanks so well! Let me know, Clare, if you need a model  whose face is obscured from the camera
http://www.clarefondapass.com/

http://www.spankbadass.com/tag/clare-fonda/

bottoms up
Red

humor plus captions

August 6, 2015, 5:00 am

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Age has it's own rewards;

always be careful how you phrase things

and remember; There's always a lot to be thankful for: if you take time to look for it. 

For example, I am sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt... 

but if you say that to your wife...

bottoms up
red

another reason to travel (humor)

August 7, 2015, 5:00 am

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So many fun tee-shirts to wear, but maybe advertising this one is a tad over the top

Just goes to show, English and Chinese translations still have a way to go!

Recently, while at the beach, I took this photo for all you military people, of a marvelous plane.  Stare, and see if you can identify it!

 and being helpful, I offered this advice to this charming woman

bottoms up

Red

CONSENSUAL SPANKING DAY AUGUST 8

August 8, 2015, 5:00 am

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Today is the day.... SO

How about everyone who is spanked today post a comment

One does not need an excuse to spank, specially when the recipient is willing, and quite possibly smiling at you

so Maybe you should just asked to be spanked today.... (Baxter can dream of this happening at his office)

and maybe you will not even have to ask

choices always exist

but even a silent movement will tell yo your fate has been determined

but do remember

so bottoms up ladies

and whoever is spanked, remember to apply

 and if you are shy to ask for a spanking, send this little message to your wife...

  but if she sends it to you , then you need to spank her.

bottoms up
Red

humor and f/m

August 9, 2015, 5:00 am

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It may just be me, but on this probable birthday cake, those towers surrounding the princesses seem to have a striking resemblance to something unintended

When a plus is shaped like a multiply, someone does need to go back to school

however, this is a consensual spanking blog, but my defense is;

and in reality,

so, enjoy this optical illusion (from http://motivateusnot.com )

and when one wife talks to another, more men get spanked

and your wife also learns that:

enjoy your spanknigs
bottoms up
Red

vintage ideas (humor)

August 10, 2015, 6:30 am

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A simple post for your amusement

sad but true> I well remember playing baseball with the guys at the park many days each summer

Do you remember, the telephone used to bring both excitement, and exercise having to walk to get it

Now we are a few generations past, as this cartoon shows

and texting in the old days was way more fun, and dangerous

 Happy teacher's day to all

and some people still pretend to go to school

bottoms up

Red

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what do you see first?

August 11, 2015, 5:00 am

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A little fun for today! What do you see first?
The paddle, the determined look on the woman's face, or the woman's breasts?

The clothed woman, or one of the naked ladies? (do not say the red shoes?)

The text, The lingerie, or the  dildo to peg you?

and always remember, it is the thought that counts

might she be saying

Her leading him, or ... the wet spot

 and my parting words are

bottoms up

red

creative uses of furniture for spanking

August 12, 2015, 5:00 am

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Spankings can happen anywhere, and if you do not want the person over your knee:
ere aree a few suggestions

a grea tuse of a table, and she even gets to keep her shoes on for modesty reasons

a desk can really allow the feet to dance, swishing about to the melody of the cane

 a love seat used to cane a beautiful seat

 The sofa never looked better

 keep holdfing that chair, and your bottom out, until I tell you that you can get up

 whereas, lying on the chair does present a beautiful target

 looking back, in dread, to see what implement he is now picking up to use

 bare bottom leaning forward anywhere in the house

 the sofa is perfect for when you invite a friend over

 and, remember, the spanking is consensual, and sometimes even suggested to alleviate a problem. Cindy once accepted 20 significant spanks with the hairbrush, so she could sit alone one evening ona cruise ship, and finish a book on her ipad, that would be erased at midnight. Additional fun for me, was that it turned out the book was not erased for quite a few days later.

bottoms up
Red

the f/m sequence

August 13, 2015, 5:00 am

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The sequence is one that many men know

Determination on the part of the spanker

Could someone have just dropped by when the spanking is just finishing?

The explanation makes perfect sense

bottoms up
Red

friendly (fiendish) sights

August 14, 2015, 5:00 am

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If you walk in a neighbors house, and the neighbor is NOT a barber, then this takes on new meaning

different house, same idea

If you come home late one night, and see this greeting at the door, you know what is going to happen

Living here, means life will certainly involve a lot of dancing

and if you see spaces on the wall, then this was today's choice

RUN!!!!!

yikes

bottoms up
Red

Husband spanked using the Bettie Paige spanking implement

August 15, 2015, 5:00 am

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I have not been listing every spanking, as the description certainly becomes redundant unless something different is happening!

Two days ago, I put out the Bettie Paige spanking implement, and Cindy took the cue to initiate a spanking session later in the day.

This implement is not very effective, as it more thuds than stings, and really does not cause any strong discomfort. I was over the knee, bare bottomed, and Cindy whacked away with enthusiasm.

Seeing little reaction on my part, this invigorated Cindy to soldier on with many swats! Cindy then proceeded with practicing and developing glancing upward spanks, and specialized in glancing  downwards spanks. Cindy then turned her attention to spanking the top of the back of my legs, and enjoying herself, starting holding my bottom upwards a bit, so that the crease between bottom and legs vanished, and this area could be spanked.

When Cindy was finally satisfied, having used both sides of the paddle, we had a wonderful love-making adventure.

The next day, my bottom was  still warm, as the spanking had not produced much red, but had made it's mark in deeper layers of my bottom.

enjoy life

spank often

bottoms up
Red