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Permit to spank your wife

October 1, 2020, 5:00 am
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 A fun sign from our youth, if you are aged like we are. 

I always imagined this as exciting and fun, as almost all material you could find showed the man spanking the woman.

This was erotically strong for me to imagine! Having her over my knee to spank whenever necessary, and I was certain I could find many reasons for this to be necessary


Little did I know that I would end up being the one spanked

 I did have to ask Cindy to spank me

and it did take quite along time to convince her that this is what I wanted

She ahs taken to enjoying spanking me
and is extremely effective with her spankings

bottoms up







RED
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Sweetie, I am waiting for you to come home

October 2, 2020, 5:00 am
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Sending a photo that describes what awaits your return


have you ever received a message like this?



bottoms up


Red

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Married Life part 2

October 3, 2020, 5:00 am
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Continuing with the reflections about being in a CONSENSUAL spanking relationship.

Point two: All it takes is a simple look to know you have crossed some line that SHOULD NOT  BE CROSSED, and you will be spanked!

Demonstration of THE LOOK


This is very true in our case, because after a spanking, I am definitely on my toes to not do anything that upsets Cindy for quite some time.

Without consequences for one's actions, the unpleasant behavior will not be modified

Just the stare will change your behavior while out, and yet a spanking will be given


The rest of the evening will determine how much harder and longer it might end up being!

Question Two:

Have you ever experienced the look while out with your wife, and spanked when you returned home?

More humor to use to get a spanking. (try sending them to your wife)




bottoms up
Red

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Once again spanked for real!

October 4, 2020, 5:00 am
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 Beware of what you ask for, and those are words every spankee should listen to. I have been over the years convincing Cindy that her spankings should be harder, and she has taken this to heart. 

A recent experience went as follows:

I waited upstairs for Cindy, and had placed the spanking chair out for her, her high heel shoes, and the wooden bath brush, the short tawse, and the OTK cane (from Ronnie's linked supplier Jack)

I waited in the corner, facing the wall. Windows closed!

Cindy entered the room, and sat on the chair, and informed me to undress completely.

When naked, I came to her chair and put her leather high heels on her feet, which rises her knees for me to be OTK ,also raising my submission level, and her dominant level.

A tap of the knee is her signal for me to be OTK. 

No warm-up, just many hard rapid spanks with the bath brush. A pause, then many more. A pause to make certain I was breathing properly, and my feet subsided their little dance. A final flurry, and the spanking stopped.

(I know you would prefer to see a woman be spanked than me)

Please hand me the tawse, as it was on the floor beside me. Handing the tawse to her, Cindy asked in my arms and shoulder were okay, and then another flurry of spanks began. The tawse is used on the top of the back of the legs,   plus higher up my bottom. It is leather, so no danger to bones or muscles. My bottom was now on fire.

(WOW)

Cindy then asked for the cane, as she handed me the tawse, and I picked up the cane and gave it to her, while still OTK.

This short little cane can be used fast and strongly, and is quite effective.  A totally different feel than the other two implements. but effective.


When Cindy was finally pleased with her efforts, the redness of my bottom, and the telltale gray area on the center of each cheek, I was permitted to stand and thank her for my spanking, which I did.

Looking in the mirror showed Cindy had outdone herself in effectiveness.

My bottom was pink going to bed, and red coming out of the shower for the next TWO days. ( and sore whenever I sat for the next couple of days.

Bottoms up









Red
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married life - the lecture (part 3)

October 6, 2020, 5:00 am
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Anyone who is spanked, 

knows that part of the spanking

involves being  told

exactly why

you are being spanked 


and exactly how you should behave in the same situation in the future

and then more of the spanking is given

Cindy is getting quite good at explaining, then continuing the spanking

and really drives home the point being made.


Is this what happens to you?

bottoms up  (more humor to get you spanked)




there is one way to win an argument

Red

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Ideas on how to use a sofa

October 7, 2020, 5:00 am
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 The arm of a sofa is just so inviting to use to administer a spanking

and the spankee looks so helpless and accepting

Of Course, you might leave the panties on to start, just so you can enjoy lowering them

Perfect for a nice swing of the tawse

And the spankee knows to stay in place for the next part of the spank
For taller spankees, the back of the sofa permits another beautiful target

and for a longer spanking,  as no head rush when the head is lower than the body

and for the most comfortable position for the spankee, see can be prone on the sofa

However the sofa is used, 

do not expect your comfort to last

for any length of time

bottoms up










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both of us spanked

October 8, 2020, 5:00 am
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Three days and three spankings.

I am a bit ( Okay : very) absent minded type, and thus in attempting to help in the meal preparation, I sometimes create waves.

Day one had me doing this, and Cindy had me bare my bottom and bend over the kitchen counter, where she spanked away her frustrations on my bottom with the soup stirrer. Wow! When used for a longer spanking (it was definitely longer than any other spankings using this implement in the kitchen), this certainly carries a wallop. my bottom was sore and red when she finished.

these spanks look insignificant, but Cindy's spanks were definitely significant, and my bottom was something like this afterwards.

Day two; Did something to upset Cindy, and later when upstairs I suggested she use the cane for six strokes to help forget the incident. I have, sadly, already forgotten why) One practice stroke on the pillow, but then six strokes that I felt, but not as strong as what was used on the pillow. i suggested she do two more like she had on the pillow. She agreed! Stroke one: my feet shot upwards at the knees. (yikes).

Legs slowly lowered in place: stroke two : again they flew upwards without any knowledge on my part, just the reaction of my body.

We shall see if this will become the norm, but those two strokes were VERY EFFECTIVE!

Day Three: Cindy caused an upsetting discussion in the car while I was driving in traffic. When all was settled, while we were walking in a regional park, I suggested strongly that she should be spanked. We are older, traffic is bad at times, and being upset while driving serves no purpose but to endanger us.

When home, in the bedroom with Cindy bare bottomed over my knee, with her upper body fully supported by the bed, I wrapped one leg over hers to keep her in place. A slow, but quite significant hand spanking followed. Maybe 25 to 30 spanks, the longest I have ever spanked her.


Problem satisfactorily solved, and hopefully not to be repeated. Of course the photo shows a woman spanking a man ,but the reality was Cindy being spanked by me.

Spankings are helping to keep us sane during this pandemic. (well, I wonder if I was ever sane)

bottoms up







RED

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Trying to be less DOMINATE

October 10, 2020, 5:00 am
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 We are trying a somewhat different approach, at my request. My history has always been the in charge, person. In officiating, I had assistants, but was the final decider. Rarely was I the assistant. At work, I was in charge of my group, period!

With Cindy, I do not back down easily.

Thus, I am encouraging Cindy to simply stop when I am starting to be dominant in a discussion about something, and spank me! 

Today, after a amicable, but definite difference of opinion, we left the topic.

Later, I went to Cindy with the wooden bath brush, and asked her to spank me for the disagreement. Cindy readily obliged, but stated I do not even remember what we were talking about, nor did I.

Bare bottom, in the living room, with the curtains open, over the knee while Cindy sat on the  sofa.  Neighbors, if looking out their 

Numerous hard spanks, as a bath brush always gives hard spanks. Lecture while the spanking was happening, and then it finished. I suggested you should do more, and Cindy happily did ten more hard spanks to one cheek, and then the other.

I am hoping that if we do this every time, I MAY become less dominant.

What methods are you using to lessen your dominant personality?

 

bottoms up






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How to stay mellow

October 12, 2020, 5:00 am
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 Some days, it is simply best to read some tumblrs with humor, sometimes sarcastic, but amusing.

Each of these are Safe For work, and have an archive visible so you can click where you want.

https://groovysarity.tumblr.com/











Make certain you keep smiling (here is another fun site0

https://googleme420.tumblr.com/



another site for fun

I  very quietly confided to my best friend that I was having an affair.

She turned to me and asked, "Are you having it catered?"   
And that, my friend, is the sad definition of "OLD"!

and for your spanking pleasure

make certain to be effective
love the feet action, and I understand it when Cindy does a hard cane stroke
Relentless certainly works

Red

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Flash photography

October 13, 2020, 5:00 am
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With cameras on every phone
Women can send photos that any partner would love to receive
a dare maybe
but truly real, not a photo shoot for a website

natural is always best
and of course,
casually posed is magnificent

 you could always send this to your partner
however, other fun flashes
while out

are simply wonderful

shopping
at the gym
or with a little help from your friend

time to eat while on the road at the pit stop
catching the photographer's attention
truly naughty
So many beautiful sights 
on the beach
by the river
friends on a hillside
friends that are willing to moon you
and, RMEMBER THE SONG:
EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL
 keep dreaming



bottoms up



Red
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Married Life (the progression of implements - Part 4a)

October 14, 2020, 5:00 am
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 As spanking becomes acceptable in your marriage, you will find that the spankee's bottom begins to adapt to being spanked.

When we first started, a hand spanking was significant, both to have me erotically aroused, and somewhat disciplinary.

but the spanker will need a hand of stone
or a lot of patience to really be effective

Spankings will then progress to the wooden hair brush

Used strongly, and for many many spanks
your partner will start to dance with his or her feet

and then use it quickly while maintaining the strength of each spank

As time progresses, though, your bottom will need either a bigger hair brush, or, as many couples have found:

The WOODEN BATH BRUSH

This implement will remain useful for many, 

many  years. 

Cindy is quite happy to use the wooden bath brush

and raising it high to bring it down with strength (yikes)

my bottom has looked like this next photo, many, many times


and it is so effective Cindy rarely gets tired while using it


The key ingredients are its length, which makes a more effective spank with the force of the wrist action, and that it is usually thinker wood, and a larger surface that is spanking you than most hair brushes/.

Spankings have helped our marriage significantly, and are specially helpful during this era of our lives with quarantines.

Part One: reflection #1  (I wish we had started day one of our marriage)  https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2020/09/married-life-part-one.html

Point two: All it takes is a simple look to know you have crossed some line that SHOULD NOT  BE CROSSED, and you will be spanked! https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2020/10/married-life-part-2.html

Part Three: https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2020/10/married-life-lecture-part-3.html

bottoms up





remember to go for a walk in the woods


Red

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Dreaming of having a maid

October 15, 2020, 5:00 am
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One fantasy many people have involves a maid


most men  would be delightfully thinking of spanking her
                
Men would delight in spanking her

and maybe having her fetch the cane
then bare her bottom
and the thought of her 
leaving her spanked bottom on display
for the remainder
of her chores
would be fun
Two maids to spank: wonderful
however, I think women would prefer the help a maid could give to the household chores.

However, no man would want the maid to spank their wife, that is one job we reserve for ourselves!

a delightful idea would be for the maid to cut 
and prepare the birch
for her birching
Dream on
bottoms up


Red

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how to feel old

October 16, 2020, 5:00 am
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hope you smile
how times have changed










just passing time

Red

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if someone complains about your driving

October 17, 2020, 5:00 am
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Fun in the great outdoors, 

but do be careful if you criticize the driver.  Here she has pulled into a picnic area
and her belt will be very useful for her
Ladies are just as likely to be taken to the back seat of the car, and have their bottom spanked
 spanking in the car can be quite effective
Really, criticizing any driving, no matter what vehicle
can get a person's backside spanked
of course, she can also wait until you get to the campsite. and light a fire in your bottom, long before any campfire begins (and so many switches are available
One can dream of spanking your wife and her mother
well dreaming is nice
but realize, your comeuppance will be severe

enjoy the thoughts while driving!
bottoms up





Red
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The chair in the bedroom

October 18, 2020, 5:00 am
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Question: Do you have a chair in the bedroom, 


and if so,

how might you describe it's main purpose?



The chair in our bedroom is decoration to the unsuspecting

and useful for filling a corner of the room


But it's main purpose is to be moved  away from the wall


 so that Cindy can sit on it, and I can be over her lap for a spanking.

In addition,  if I clutter it up by throwing clothes on it, then I have to first declutter the chair, then spanked to remember not to throw thing son the chair.
bottoms up






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waiting with the LONG tawse

October 19, 2020, 5:00 am
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 So many photos to peak your imagination!

You can see the smile

that she has, when she sees 
your reaction to what she is holding
However, the determined look

makes you think of running away
but you know it will only be worse
when you arrive home again
best to simply
bare your bottom quickly
(and she may delight in this)
and await your fate

It will be significantly 
effective
and the time
will pass so slowly as the fire alights in your bottom
pleasant dreams















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beware the long tawse

October 20, 2020, 5:00 am
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If your partner does not own a long tawse

You both need to purchase one of these

The spankee will certainly regret the purchase

and staying in position will be difficult
this facial expression will be real
and I know this from experience as being the spankee

(UN)fortunately, Cindy does not use it as seriously as these gifs

but this look I can certainly sympathize and agree with

and your wife might have a little smile when you react to her choosing the long tawse


she might even be indicating your hands might need a taste also if they cannot get you naked and ready for your spanking quickly


We purchased both the short and long tawse from

https://www.cane-iac.com/

I recommend you do the same, and say Red from consensualspanking.blogspot.com sent you

If you are the spankee, I am certain you will regret the purchase.

bottoms up





all humor from https://groovysarity.tumblr.com/

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Twosomes (part one)

October 21, 2020, 5:00 am
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 Sometimes, one wonders what would happen if you insulted a woman in front of your wife!

Assume the friend knows you war a spanked husband,


 What would it be like

when she is invited to participate


in your spanking


immediately, no modesty is permitted for you


Has this ever happened to you?

 

maybe two canes at the same time

or, she might wait for her turn

Is it just a fantasy?

bottoms up





Red

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Keeping him in position

October 22, 2020, 5:00 am
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 Sometimes the spanking may be very intense, and you need a little extra help to keep him OVER YOUR KNEE.

If he starts to squirm too much, then simply wrap one leg over the back of his thighs
You might want to even start his spanking this way, with all those other spanking implements you intend to use on his bottom during this spanking!
having your leg over the back of his knees means he is not going anywhere
but for absolutely best results, his body supported by the bed, means no head rush feeling dizzy, , and holding his arm means it will never again get in the way.

however, for the young and adventurous, you could tell him that if his legs come off the chair arms, the spanking will start all over again with the cane. A little encouragement goes a long way

HAVE YOU EVER TRIED THIS METHOD WHEN SPANKNIG, OR BEING SPANKED?


BOTTOMS UP




RED

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Hand spanking can be effective

October 23, 2020, 5:00 am
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 If a person's bottom is not spanked often, 


then a hand spanking


will be effective


specially if it is prolonged in duration


however, this upper spank is not recommended. Cindy REALLY hurt a finger spanking me like this


this1:30 minute spanking certainly can make for a very red and sore bottom 


enjoy the jiggle if you get the chance


Cindy rarely uses her hand, the minimum implement being the hair brush!

bottoms up











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