Where dear?

November 15, 2012, 5:00 am

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The unflinching finger can beckon

or it can point where you should be

There can be no doubt in your mind

by what your partner holds in her hand

so do be quick

Your fate is already sealed

and let the fun begin

bottoms up
Red

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unique twist on holding the implement

November 16, 2012, 5:00 am

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I have recently seen some photos which I think are very creative

very erotic

and interesting to imagine:

either being the person who was spanked

or about to be spanked again soon

awaiting in front of a window naked doing cornertime

or the spanker..having the spankee hand them the implement

However, I doubt you can buy this wooden device at Lowes, and I am certain the woman is not included..shucks!!!!

bottoms up
Red

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Explaining Your SPANKING DESIRES TO YOUR PARTNER

November 17, 2012, 5:30 am

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For all those people out there wishing they were in a spanking relationship, this is an article you should read....
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/modern-love-a-spanking-fetish-is-not-revealed-easily.html?_r=0

Hermione recently posted about it, but our blogs have some cross-over of readers, but many who do not read both blogs.Here is what Hermione had to say about the issue..
http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com/2012/11/revealing-your-love-of-spanking.html

I receive emails at times about how to get their partner to spank them. I don't really know how to answer!

Love, trust, a solid relationship, and a caring in the relationship all are necessary.

Maybe some readers will step up to the plate and tell how they came about discussing spanking, and becoming comfortable with spanking their partner.

and after the spanking, both can admire the handiwork

Go read the article... it is worthwhile...

bottoms up
Red

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images and captions for spankings

November 18, 2012, 5:30 am

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Spanking is a feature of both the physical aspects and the mental.aspects. No doubt is in your mind when you see the following picture

Nor this picture, where you can just feel the fire in your bottom after being spanked outdoors

I am always amazed at how much the mental aspects can excite the senses. Just look at the following picture, as a spanking enthusiast...

Simply reading spanking related captions, with a setting that can easily transform for a spanking to be given immediately is fun. Being spanked by your sister-in-law, or girl friends sister. The embarrassment, the shame, the erection that will certainly occur..

or maybe your girlfriend has told her Mum!

Enjoy thinking about spanking today, if you are not invovled in spanking or being spanked today.
bottoms up
Red

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spanked and sex

November 19, 2012, 5:00 am

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AHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We saw the doctor on Friday, and basically he said that I should be fine, and that I should be back to normal soon!!! I am in a rehabilitation program, and am, unfortunately for me, one of the youngest, but also about the fittest.

So, yesterday, we went for a walk (Hike) in a nearby wildlife management area. the hike was up and down short and longer inclines, and a real workout. I felt good, but tired, because I have not really done anything remotely strenuous for 6 weeks.

Later, but before dinner, we decided to make love, and I suggested a little spanking also. Cindy bathed, and then we cuddled, and I suggested that I could be on my tummy over a pillow, and she could use the wooden hair brush a little.

Cindy agreed, a little reluctantly. However, after a few tentative spanks, she lost any reticence she had, and gave quite strong spanks on the top half of my bottom. Probably 40 or more spanks, some quite significant on a bottom that had softened significantly over the last six weeks.

When Cindy stopped, we cuddled and made slow passionate love,with fabulous orgasm for each eventually.

Nice to be getting back in the role of normal living.

bottoms up
Red

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smiling and spanking

November 20, 2012, 5:30 am

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guess what happened afterwards

how about this from Australia (an actual sign)

owwwww

I think I should just get on my motorcycle and ride off into the night...

oh well, maybe it is just not my day

they all want in on the action

bottoms up

Red

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Kinky cards for Spanksgiving

November 21, 2012, 5:30 am

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Wishing everyone throughout the world that they have a happy Thanksgiving tomorrow.

A helpful hint that your partner might enjoy, is to have some fun with spanking today, to avert in advance some of the stress that might accompany tomorrow.

Thus, a slight raising of the eyebrow on Thanksgiving Day, might remind the spankee of what happened yesterday, and prevent any difficulties if the spanking was disciplinary.

If the spanking was a fun activity, a raised eyebrow could remind the spankee of more fun to come, when the stress of the family get-together has past.

www.kinkycards.com

All of these cards come from kinky cards thanksgiving cards

Why not send one to your loved one...

bottoms up
Red

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Happy Spanksgiving: give thanks for dominant women and men

November 22, 2012, 5:30 am

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Happy Thanksgiving, or should we say Spanksgiving to everyone, with special mention to everyone having spanking as something fun and useful in their life.

Here is another tumblr worth visiting.

Some of the photos are astounding, like the one above and below this!

There are over 100 pages, so best to use the archive feature to see only those which really catch your attention

The school theme is always visible

http://imagesandpics4me.tumblr.com/archive

All the pictures in this post come from this site.

Drop by and enjoy .

bottoms up
Red

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kinky card i sent to Cindy

November 23, 2012, 5:30 am

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Maybe we could celebrate Thanksgiving Day with our own Spanks giving Day...

Tis better to give than to receive, so which role would you prefer

bare bottoms up

Love
Red
www.kinkycards.com

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humor and F/M

November 24, 2012, 7:43 am

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Thought I would post a little joke with these posts. Humor is always healthy, maybe it healped me survive a heart attack.

I thought it had humor...

The result is predictable

and a few lines to write about my behaving

bottoms up
Red

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Sign Sunday

November 25, 2012, 12:38 pm

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Little thoughts you might like

The above description was not written by someone in a spanking relationship! I have yet to find a wooden bath brush that would meet that description
.

A truer statement has never been made in the next one...

Now remember

IF the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, then would this also be true

Have fun everyday

And one for the F/M enthusiasts

bottoms up
Red

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female domination: avoid being a pinata

November 26, 2012, 8:33 am

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A whimsical collection of photos for your entertainment

if you follow all of these guidelines, hopefully you will not be invited to a pinata party... as the pinata

That's right, a few paces behind and slightly bent over, and carrying her purse for her

After a long day, it is always nice to have a footstool handy

When she has a few friends over, be certain to be cooperative

Serve drinks when requested..

Be ready to drop to your knees whenever requested, no doubt as to why.....

Be pleasant and accommodating to help her FEEL the erotic literature she is reading

and keep her content while she is messaging her friends

So remember those kind words she whispered to you after your last spanking

and avoid being a pinata.

bottoms up

Red

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bend over

November 27, 2012, 5:30 am

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A simple post of pictures

The problem is staying quiet

bottoms up

Red

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femdom marriage

November 28, 2012, 5:30 am

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Another tumblr site that might catch a specialized audience is Femdom Marriage

It is for (as it posts) Dom wives / Sub husband

"Pictures and stories, you can imagine, that they are about married people. No leather, no latex, no dungeons."

http://fdmarriage.tumblr.com

It had 799 pages of photos when I wrote this, so it is certainly over 800 now.

It would be best to look at the archive....

As it states no dungeons, but foot worship, face sitting, spanking, anilingus, pegging, dom /sub roles

So everything a heart could desire

but possibly others you would give an avoiding pass.

All the photos posted come from this site.

Bottoms up
Red

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update on health

November 29, 2012, 5:30 am

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As a little update on life after a heart attack, Cindy has spanked me a few times but only a few strong whacks with a wooden kitchen utensil. Seems I upset her more when she is cooking, or simply she is simply less patient.

However, I have spanked Cindy a few times recently. They are related to my heart attack, as Cindy becomes overwhelmed and excessively overprotective.

I have dropped out of cardiac rehab!

The only follow the leader I like would be if these ladies were leading.

The lectures are dumbed down to a grade one primary school level, because of the perceived target audience of my community. Both Cindy and I have a university degree. The presented materials of each weekly meeting explain what already exists in the handouts they gave me on leaving the hospital. The lectures are given by people who have no idea how to teach. Lastly, the lecturers get flustered, give personal ideas, and some are blatantly wrong. Example: better to go out and hit a bucket of balls, than to play nine holes of golf using a motorized golf cart, when re-starting to exercise. STUPID!!! A bucket of balls (around 80 balls) requires bending down to place the ball on a tee many times, lifting the arms over the head 80 times, and swinging, repetitively and often. Playing golf takes time between each shot, walking to and from the cart, and waiting while other people play their ball.

The most important lecture they say that could not be missed is when we visit a local Publix super market, and they show us how to read labels on products. I used to say to counter the excitement of something like this by saying "oh heart be still" ,but am learning to say something else. We read labels. We purchase low sodium or low fat items. We purchase a lot of food at Whole Foods. We eat fish three times a week, and usually all wild (halibut, PACIFIC Salmon) rainbow trout. Cindy makes soup that we are eating almost every day for lunch. I have lost 10 pounds, and am now about 170.

They did not mention the dangers of grapefruit, which I already knew.
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-204_162-57554838/drinking-grapefruit-juice-with-some-medications-can-be-deadly-study-warns/
If you know anyone on pills after a heart attack, copy and paste this link in an email to them. Don't send them to my site, as that might cause you enough stress to have a heart attack.

The exercise program is two sessions a week,but DUMB. They are designed for people who are very overweight, or old, and who never exercise.... I have been given a target heart rate of 105 - 118, but am not allowed to jog... I cannot get above 90 on a treadmill without a slope so high i need to hold on for dear life. The exercises are for people who never exercised in life. I golf, officiate where I run a lot, play baseball, and ski downhill in winter. I have a heart monitor, and have started gardening, but the heart rate does not get above 90. Obviously, I will not garden in the summer, except at dusk if it is not too hot.

I have looked on the web for more information, and basically cardiac rehab is designed to get you active instead of sedentary. You should warm-up for 15 minutes, exercise for 15 - 40 minutes at your target heart rate, then cool down for 15 minutes. The program I was in sometimes started late because the lecturer did not limit the length and ran over, then warm-up(15 minutes0, exercise less than 30 minutes,then cool down(10 minutes), but always stop on time... No, if we start late, then we do a full hour....

I will be working out at the gym in both a post cardiac rehab program and another program four times a week. Guidelines say that you should be back to normal after six weeks, so now that it is about 7.5 weeks, I intend to start living normally and exercising often.;
keep smiling

The photos are just meant to be fun to look at.. I always love looking at women!!!
bottoms up
Red

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photo friday

November 30, 2012, 5:30 am

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A few pictures for your entertainment...
When you spank him, hold on tight to make certain he neither bounces around too much, nor tries to get away...

Always be willing to surprise him

Maybe invite a few friends over to give you a hand spanking him

You might like to make your own caption for this one

He was caught wearing (or made to put on) pantyhose and panties, and quite permissibly a pink bra (dangling on his arm), and then spanked in front of her two girlfriends (or his sisters... or......

Maybe a better idea for cornertime is to have to stand their naked, looking at the paddle that will soon blister your bottom

but then again, you may be waiting your turn to be spanked and readily dreading what is to come

but like many of us, you may love (love/hate/ love reaction) being spanked... and are waiting with a smile on your face

bottoms up
Red

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Cindy spanked

December 1, 2012, 5:30 am

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We recently got back to spanking, and we both enjoyed it. Cindy had been fretting too much over my health, and letting it stress both of us out. She eventually calms down, but previously she agreed that if she did it again I could spank her for it.

Well, it happened again. When she and I realized and I calmed her down< I reminded her that she has earned a spanking, followed by making love. Cindy tried to talk her way out of it, but I was not persuaded, so off she went to take a quick freshen up bath and I waited comfortably on our bed.

Cindy finished, and came to the bed where we first kissed and cuddled, before I requested she lie over my lap. She reluctantly did so.

A few spanks, and her bottom was a light pink, followed by some rubbing and caressing by me, a few more spanks, and then some fondling between her legs so as she would stay in place, as I wanted both of us to be enjoying the spanking. We talked a little about her stressing herself out regarding my health, and how bad that was for her and also for me. Spank spank, now harder, making a satisfying noise and ooow from Cindy. She exclaimed that that should be enough, but I coaxed her to accept a few more spanks to remember why she was being spanked.

Her bottom was a nice shade of red when I stopped, and then kissed her bottom for her and my benefit. We then cuddled, caressed, kissed, sucked and licked her to a tremendous orgasm!!!! We both love this position of domination submission, but truly being in love

followed by my entering her for my won fabulous orgasm.

Spanking, if accepted and consensual, solves minor problems, and leads to fabulously enhanced sex.
We recommend it wholeheartedly
bottoms up
Red

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Spanked by wife

December 2, 2012, 5:00 am

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Always like to play with the titles, so that other Google searches might find this blog.

Aside: Well, Cindy is still somewhat reluctant to spank me, as she had given me one of her strongest ever spankings the day before I had a heart attack, followed by fabulous love making.

However, I had not felt well for a number of weeks, starting from hurting my knee while playing baseball. I was on antibiotics, and did NOT even feel like drinking wine or beer while on a two week cruise.I still believe that the injury started the problem. I fell hard scraping a knee running full speed in the infield rounding the bases, and scraping the knee and leg with a lot of dirt and lost skin. The key point is that the City had signs up that the field had been sprayed for weeds that day, and shouldn't be used. however, this does not stop stupid adults. I bathed and cleaned the knee carefully, but three days later the leg before the knee turned blackish, which faded after a week of antibiotics.

However, I now feel strong, except still for the knee, almost three months later...

BACK TO SPANKING:

Cindy first took a freshen up bath, I put on some panties, and waited for Cindy to call me. Cindy was dressed in sexy lingerie, and we caressed and kissed before I crawled over her knees. Cindy did a few soft spanks with her hand, then lowered my panties, and commenced with the wooden hairbrush.
I must say that she lost any reluctance of spanking me once she started. The spanks were hard, with a little lecture of things i could do to improve and reduce annoyances. The spanks were significant, and numerous, and I started owwing and moving around on her lap.

She graced one cheek for a number of spanks until I started bouncing, then moved to the other cheek to repeat the method, then back to the first cheek.... OWWWWWWWWW.

A bottom that has only been spanked a little in the last week, and none for two months before really feels .every spank. Cindy stopped, and I started to move off her knees,when a hand on the small of my back and the words " I am just resting a little", let me know more was to come, and they did with even greater force, the same level that has been used when spanking me for the last few years.

Clearly, Cindy is willing to spank me when needed from now on.

The love making after the spanking ended was FABULOUS.;Very similar to other recent posts, but always little differences and nuances making the ride spectacular!!!!

If you ever are wondering to try spanking... Go for it...

An afterthought: A reminder of how they thought of the name, and how you spell Google

The first captioned photo is from http://klaarover.tumblr.com/

bottoms up
RED

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Caption wanted: Heads or Tails or show and tell

December 3, 2012, 5:30 am

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Thought these photos were interesting enough for it's own post... Apologies but I have no idea where they came from.... but would have enjoyed taking the pictures...

Heads: a FUN CLASS PHOTO