effectively spanked
I am sometimes my worst enemy, and say things or get grumpy without a reasonable cause. Yesterday, this once again reared it's head, and we had a very small tiff.While Cindy was out on messages, I came...
View Articlea couple plays in a BDSM room
Having conversed with Marco many times, I can assure all readers that this is a real couple's adventure.. I have previously published some of their activities."Lindsay and I had a great day in a...
View Articlemature spankers
The wonderful thing about TheThingWeDo is that there are really no age limits.Exception 1: on this blog, no spanking of children, or of being spanked as a child, ever appears on my blog.Exception 2:...
View Articlehappiness
The goal in life is to be happy.This is a wonderful guide to remind yourself, when life's troubles and anxieties start to get the upper hand.We both try to follow these ideas, albeit some more than...
View Articlemaintenance spankings
Maintenance spankings!Do you regularly follow a procedure such as a weekly spanking, no matter how good your behavior has been?Are you hoping I would forget?I think you should just follow me,...
View Articlea good book
So many good ideas can be found in books. and women unaware of spanking their partner would benefit from being the dominate personality in the marriage, not the submissiveWhat books have you read that...
View Articlefood for thought
With all the politically correct concepts throughout society! I would love it if it did become accept! It might be acceptable among some people in their twenties, but then, if they knew my age, the...
View Articlehow to Offend both political sides
Before progressing in this post, a little humor most people can agree withand rememberIt seems to me:we need to laugh more at our politicians,and at ourselves, than being so uptight.so here is my...
View ArticleWooden bath brush
Does your family own a wooden bath brush?I think it is an implement that everyone should own, as it is easily EXTREMELY EFFECTIVE, with little effort on the part of the spanker. Now this is obviously...
View Articleoutdoor spankings
It is that time of yearto bare those rearsoutdoorsand give themthe spanking  theydeserveand let this be the good old daysHave you ever been spanked outdoors?I have been spanked outdoors, but never made...
View Articlethe simplest solution
Sometimes you screw up, and the situation needs to be dealt with. The easiest solution in a consensual relationship Have him bare his bottom, while you retrieve the wooden paddle, then hav ehim bend...
View Articlekeeping him (or her) in place (part one)
one method is the time honoredHave the spankee over one knee, and use your other leg over the back of his(her) legsto keep them iin placeand totally reducing the squiring and feet dancing that they...
View Articleback to spanking
Cindy goes through cycles, where I m spanked frequently, then long stretches of no spankings. Today, we returned to the spanking mode.I sent a joking email to one of our children, and ruminating about...
View Articlereturn to weight loss attempt with Danielle's help
We have strayed form regular check-in on weight, and thus my weight has risen. Thus, we have returned to weight determined spankings.Yesterday's spanking was followed by one today, after a discussion...
View ArticleWhy men get spanked
Sometimes, it is because our sense of humor is different than that of a woman....Example one: A man would laugh at this oneThe look after you laughed at the first captionis followed by a very...
View Articlequick use of the cane for my weight
It doe snot take very much time to give an effective spanking, specially if you are using the cane. My weight is stable, but still above 180, so it was the cane's turn to encourage me.In my defense, we...
View ArticleTalk quietly
and carry a big stickno matter the size, you will soon have his undivided attention slap gently against your hand for effect, he knows it will not be this gentle on his bottomand show delight in your...
View Articlehumor
This is officially : Be certain to smile todayand your wife's reaction to you giving the above lady a hugthis might be the case in positionand if you add any funny remark to this captionsmile or be...
View Articlefantasy wednesday (two spankers)
One of the fun things about a spanking kink, is that you can imagine all different scenarios, without actually having them happen.HMMMM: He is rather submissive, just as you saidso, as he is your...
View Articlethought for today
Never be wishy washy when deciding to give someone a spanking, if in a consensual spanking relationship involving adultsThis woman understandsand we can only dream of being able to do this at work...
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