how one person found out he was submissive

This was posted as a comment by JayJay

For me it was a very sudden realization. I started out as the spanker with my first girlfriend, She would get over my knee and I would hand spank her bare fanny and finger her clitoris at the same time.

After we broke up and I started dating the woman would eventually become my wife.

I waited until we started having regular intercourse to suggest spanking with her. I said " would you like to try spanking?" Her response was "YES!! " but she added that she wanted to wait until she and her sister moved into their new apartment.

When the time finally arrived I got the surprise of my life. I made a move to give her a spanking and she stopped me immediately and said:

Hold it mister I'm not the one who is going to get spanked in this relationship.
Drop your pants and bend over the arm of that chair. I did as she ordered.
She took of the belt from her jeans 
 and I learned that I was a submissive male.
After she cracked that strap over my bare behind to her satisfaction she stood me in a corner,
stripped off her own clothes and sat down in the same chair That I was just spanked on.

She called me over to her, spread her legs and told me to go down on her. I was wild with passion and down I went.
I went from thinking that I was a dominant male to knowing that I was submissive male in one evening. We fell madly in love that night and still are. JayJay PS. Thanks for all those great pictures.