This is what Booker wrote:
Hey Red, Thanks for posting part A. It worked! After she and I talk things over some more, maybe I'll post about it or add a comment to your post. How about part B, the part about holding still:
ANY AND ALL READERS SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME
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possibility two: the leg lock
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a hand on your side is a reminder not to try and slip off the side of her knees
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To make the spanking more intense, your wife should stop after a while, but keep you in position, allowing you a little time to recover,a dn then begin again... This method of stopping and starting is very effective
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AND TO HAVE A WEE SMILE
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IF THE SPANKING IS NOT UP TO YOUR STANDARDS, PLEASE LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. The intensity of spankings will evolve over time.
bottoms up
Red
Hey Red, Thanks for posting part A. It worked! After she and I talk things over some more, maybe I'll post about it or add a comment to your post. How about part B, the part about holding still:
I've been spanked a few times with a hair brush or bath brush, but never enough, because I always wimp out. And I feel stupid asking for more later on. Sitting here typing, I want to ask for a thorough paddling and she shouldn't let me wimp out any more, make sure I'm sorry I asked for it. I know there are some things she's angry about, and I bet she'd be glad to whale my ass. But I think that before it starts to hurt very much, I'll want her to stop, or I'll get up. How can she hold me down or talk me into holding still for a real one?
My Answer:
Firstly, I think the myth and the reality of being spanked are highly different, specially in your case.
I love everything about the spanking scene, the before being spanked, the retrieving implements, the baring one's bottom, the getting over the knee or into whatever position Cindy wants, and the aftermath of the warm, or hot, or sore bottom. However, while being spanked, if I have time to think, I wonder why I ever wanted this, but most times my mind goes blank and the fire of the spanks totally focuses my mind on the spanks, and hoping it will end soon,, or simply owwing and feet dancing as a reaction to lessen the pain.
Your wife does not want to hurt you, so when you wimp out, she is willing to stop. THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE. THIS IS CONSENSUAL! YOU SHOULD HAVE A "SAFE WORD", AND UNLESS YOU SAY IT, YOU CAN DISCUSS WITH HER THAT SHE SHOULD SIMPLY KEEP SPANKING UNTIL SHE IS SATISFIED THAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED THE PUNISHMENT SO AS YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR WAYS!
ANY AND ALL READERS SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME
Two positions, and obvious variations of these are readily available to keep you in place, but in reality, you should focus your thoughts on staying in place. Most people are never spanked to tears, as that is an emotional reaction, so I hope that is not what you are looking for.
Possibility one
a variation
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This lets your feet kick as much as they want, you are not getting away
bottoms up
Red