Spanking in our lifestyle is always a stop and go concept. I may be spanked significantly a couple of times in a week, and then no spanking for a couple of weeks or more.
Cindy has not warmed to the idea of a regular spanking day once a week, regardless of behavior, but does do a number of on the spot corrections for a short amount of spanks. These usually occur in the kitchen, when she is more stressed preparing a meal, and I am at my clumsiness best.
It may be that I do not come immediately when called, other times it is because I am in the way, other times that I should know better than too do...
However, spanking helps reduce my stress, and thus I ask for spankings at times, and Cindy always helps out. However, sometimes the spankings are short, and do not solve the problem.
Thus, I recently sent Cindy the following letter:
Hi sweetie:
We need to get back on track a little, and you are flying off the handle so to speak, instead of dealing with the problem.
I believe you need to give me a few real spankings, starting today, and whenever you decide. (I only ask that a spanking that is significant not happen until one hour after I have gotten up, so that my body has loosened up from being asleep.
You threw a fit about a shoe that was lost, upsetting yourself and me far more than a significant spanking would do!
My misbehavior last night should be dealt with!
A spanking should make me alter behavior.
It does not need to be followed by making love. (you can decide that I only orally please you, and we can make love another day.)
it should last for a few minutes, where you can pause and lecture a little (but only if you do not get more upset by lecturing), and you should use many rapid and many significant spanks.
Really, spanking me has helped make us more loving, and I desire that you spank me whenever you are unhappy with me, but not to fly off the handle stressing both of us immensely.
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here are some links to watch real spankings. (the titles besides these clips are by the author of the tumblr, not by me)
Remember that these are models, but they are paid to take a significant spanking.
http://thenightowlhoots.tumblr.com/post/26308621891/yelle1212-i-love-this-one-of-jessicas
http://jimneedspunished.tumblr.com/post/91943638852/spankingnl-otkspnk-great-spanking-video-with
http://thenightowlhoots.tumblr.com/post/22514241005
You told me this morning that you were gong to spank me. you were mad at what happened overnight. Follow through, please
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your loving husband
I will describe the spanking I did receive in a day or two
bottoms up
Red
Cindy has not warmed to the idea of a regular spanking day once a week, regardless of behavior, but does do a number of on the spot corrections for a short amount of spanks. These usually occur in the kitchen, when she is more stressed preparing a meal, and I am at my clumsiness best.
It may be that I do not come immediately when called, other times it is because I am in the way, other times that I should know better than too do...
However, spanking helps reduce my stress, and thus I ask for spankings at times, and Cindy always helps out. However, sometimes the spankings are short, and do not solve the problem.
Thus, I recently sent Cindy the following letter:
Hi sweetie:
We need to get back on track a little, and you are flying off the handle so to speak, instead of dealing with the problem.
I believe you need to give me a few real spankings, starting today, and whenever you decide. (I only ask that a spanking that is significant not happen until one hour after I have gotten up, so that my body has loosened up from being asleep.
You threw a fit about a shoe that was lost, upsetting yourself and me far more than a significant spanking would do!
My misbehavior last night should be dealt with!
A spanking should make me alter behavior.
It does not need to be followed by making love. (you can decide that I only orally please you, and we can make love another day.)
it should last for a few minutes, where you can pause and lecture a little (but only if you do not get more upset by lecturing), and you should use many rapid and many significant spanks.
Really, spanking me has helped make us more loving, and I desire that you spank me whenever you are unhappy with me, but not to fly off the handle stressing both of us immensely.
Remember that these are models, but they are paid to take a significant spanking.
http://thenightowlhoots.tumblr.com/post/26308621891/yelle1212-i-love-this-one-of-jessicas
http://jimneedspunished.tumblr.com/post/91943638852/spankingnl-otkspnk-great-spanking-video-with
http://thenightowlhoots.tumblr.com/post/22514241005
You told me this morning that you were gong to spank me. you were mad at what happened overnight. Follow through, please
I will describe the spanking I did receive in a day or two
bottoms up
Red