Wondering what situation many people involved in spanking relate it to sexual activity.
Personally, we mostly now have solely a spanking for me, without sex until 24 to 48 hours later. Sort of makes the discipline more effective, and remembered. Short on the spot spankings for doing something upsetting to Cindy in the kitchen simply involves bend over, bare your bottom, and many spanks with a wooden utensil, and then carry on as though nothing has happened. (except that I have a sore bottom, and Cindy has relieved her upset).Occasionally, we have a smallish spanking, and then make love, the spanking being foreplay.
Rarely is there ever a significant spanking and then make love, however never knowing what will follow is also titillating..
So, what happens in your household?
bottoms up
Red