Spankings to stay happy

By now, most people involved in adult consensual spanking:

know that they spank for pleasure, and this most times lead either directly, or a little bit later to sexual activity

they sometimes spank as discipline[ behavior management] (which may or may not lead to immediate sex, but that a few days later the sex is out of this world amazing)

partake in both aspects of spanking.

We use both, and the line between one type and the other is definitely blurred at best.

Currently, we are on a one a day spanking regime (however, misbehavior would immediately add an extra spanking), and while being spanked, pauses are taken. The goal is to say five positive things we have in our life, and not to repeat what was said any previous day. As we both do not necessarily remember what was said the previous day, I may repeat something, but have not yet repeated anything.

The spankings have been strong, as that is the way we do most of my spankings.

The first day was the short tawse, the belt, and the wooden bath brush.

The second day was the leather, metal studded, heart shaped paddle.

The third day was the large wooden spoon in the kitchen.

Cindy has become adept at pushing my bottom cheeks upward, to truly spank the crease, and then repeat on the other side. The tawse both wraps, and delves into the crack between the cheeks, with no area spared, if you understand what I mean.

Is it working? YES!

Which type of spankings do you and your partner use?