Here is a honest summary of how Baxter convinced his wife to spank him. I followed much the same path with Cindy. It took time to convince her, and now she is VERY comfortable spanking me, either when I express a need to be spanked, or she feels I need to be spanked. Both scenarios work for us.
One last thought from hockey Great Wayne Gretsky:
You miss 100% of the shots you do NOT take.
Translation: you will never know her or his answer unless you ask?
Baxter has been along time friend commenting on this and other blogs.
BAXTER WROTE:
As I have written here before, getting my wife to spank me took many years.
I asked her just after we were married and she said no, that it was perverted.
So I went back into my shell about it and of course, thought about and fantasized about spanking a lot of the time.
Once we got into our current house a couple decades ago, I started buying spanking fiction books from Amazon and one day, my wife asked to see one of the books. I gave her one written by Fiona Locke.
A lightbulb went off and she told me to give her my leather belt and to bare my bottom. I did and she gave me a few good smacks with it.
She said she understood my fetish and while it still took more time, she is much more into spanking me.
For instance the other day, I motioned her into the kitchen where there lies a cutting board, AKA wooden paddle to spankos, and asked her for a prime number of spanks.
She will only spank me prime numbers of spanks so I was given 17 spanks. Painful but enjoyable also.
The bottom line is that your spouse is your lifetime partner and communication is key to a good marriage.
Within reason, your spouse should be agreeable to almost anything and spanking fits that category, in my opinion.
We will celebrate 37 years of a happy and solid marriage in a couple of weeks. Certainly that is a milestone worthy of a spanking.
hold on ( she might be adding more for the years she never spanked you)
(Baxter: send me your wife's email privately, and I will email her the suggestion privately. That will certainly guarantee a paddling like you have never received before. However, a method you might choose is just to show her this post.)
bottoms up
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