The advice I can give you is that if you desire to be spanked, then you should ask. Circumstances of young children in the house, and many other factors will weigh in on the ultimate decision.
It may take quite some time to convince her/him to try it once, but if it works for BOTH of you, then it is marvelous!
Spankings could be foreplay, before mind blowing sex, but they could evolve into stress relief and discipline spankings as the years go by.
We highly approve of you asking your partner if this is a fetish or kink or just a whim to see what it is like.
Reality will eventually take hold, even if it takes a number of years,
if your partner decides to do a real spanking for discipline, you will not like it while the spanking is happening, but afterwards the glow and the warmth and affection will be wonderful.
and when your wife is really annoyed,
these might be the words you hear.
always loved Groucho Marx
You have to be old to understand this one.
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