As spanking becomes acceptable in your marriage, you will find that the spankee's bottom begins to adapt to being spanked.
When we first started, a hand spanking was significant, both to have me erotically aroused, and somewhat disciplinary.
and then use it quickly while maintaining the strength of each spank
As time progresses, though, your bottom will need either a bigger hair brush, or, as many couples have found:
The WOODEN BATH BRUSH
This implement will remain useful for many,
many years.
Point two: All it takes is a simple look to know you have crossed some line that SHOULD NOT BE CROSSED, and you will be spanked! https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2020/10/married-life-part-2.html
Part Three: https://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2020/10/married-life-lecture-part-3.html
bottoms up
remember to go for a walk in the woods