Happiness is having someone who enjoys spanking you, both as a fun spanking, and when needed as a discipline spanking!
and how both of you will benefit from this spanking.
bottoms up
Red
Both type of spankings should be significantly effective
and your partner hopefully will be smiling when announcing you are about to be spanked!
Smiling while spanking should be the goal
Either you are pleasing the spankee
or making a start at solving a problem
Either way, be happy, and maybe tell him how much you are enjoying spanking him
and how both of you will benefit from this spanking.
So smile,
Specially when you show him just how much the cane will bend
and thus how more velocity it will have when it abruptly meets his bottom
R3meber the Thank you from him,
and the kiss that says I love you sweetheart
What a wonderful way to spend a portion of the day during lock-down / social distancing
bottoms up
Red