Our greatest difficulty is stress, where we let it overwhelm us while making a decision (specially involving spending money for home repairs or a vacation).
However, I have zero worry or stress, and feel wonderful, giving money to our children.
They keep saying spend it on yourself!!! So I find unique ways of giving them more.
We are very comfortable, having spent a lifetime saving and paying off the mortgage, and driving safe but older cars, taking inside cabins on cruises, finding specials online and using them as part of our vacations. We no longer have the cost of university for the children, and really are quite comfortable.
We have regular guaranteed pensions, that we paid a lot for while working. The house is paid off. No charge bills that we do not always pay before they are due.
We live modestly, except we vacation a lot, living modestly as we travel. Airbnb, trivago for hotels, having a large lunch in Europe, which is always so much cheaper, so a minimal dinner.
How I react to stress is that I get shortness of breath. Not severe, but regular throughout the day.
Spankings help solve my stress, putting everything in perspective.
I had one day like this, and on the next day asked Cindy for another spanking, which have been occurring often.
We felt the cane would be most effective, so I was bare bottom up, over two large pillows, for the teacher's type cane from Ronnie via Jack's Canes.
Practice first, as Cindy is mild when using the cane, so I requested she use the pillow to spank first, and get use to giving a harder stroke. She agreed, and practiced some good whops, gaining control to have them land where she wanted.
My turn was next, and a quite long, medium strength caning ensued, with coverage to quite high up on my bottom, all the way to the top of my legs beyond the crease..
A little lecture that we have to be nicer to our self. We need to permit ourselves to spend on ourselves, without stressing forever. Also remember, that we have no bucket list, so we do not have to plan excessively to see most sites where we are going. This vacation is a considerable distance from home, nor where near North America.
(Not my bottom, but coverage was quite similar)
The spanking was ended, and I thanked Cindy for the spanking. We cuddled, and later that day made passionate love, with orgasms that are INCREDIBLE.
THE BREATHING WAS MUCH LESS SEVERE, AND IS FINE THE DAY LATER.
At least for us, spanking is a blessing in our marriage.
DO YOU FIND SPANKINGS HAVE IMPROVED YOUR MARRIAGE?
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