A reader Mark wrote me a message, and had this suggestion for post.
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I usually bare my bottom when Cindy nods seated on the spanking chair, or bare it before getting into any other position to be spanked.
Here is the letter:
I had not thought of it, but really like that Mark thinks this blog is respectful.
bottoms up
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Red
Are you required to bare your bottom for a spanking?
or is your bottom bared for you?
and the follow-up question:
Which do you find to be more submissive?
Baring yourself, or being bared?
Maybe your belt is undone, your pants opened and lowered, and your underwear taken down, as you stand meekly awaiting being told to bend over her knees, and your fate!
Maybe your belt is undone, your pants opened and lowered, and your underwear taken down, as you stand meekly awaiting being told to bend over her knees, and your fate!
I usually bare my bottom when Cindy nods seated on the spanking chair, or bare it before getting into any other position to be spanked.
Here is the letter:
Hi, Red... I love your blog and check it out almost every day...clever, amusing, respectful....just all around well done. Thanks
A question for you and maybe a fun photo essay: When my late wife spanked me, she generally started with me with my panties up...a warm up, she said, before the main event. Often, she's just pull my panties down while I was over the back of the couch or across her lap, but sometimes she'd have me stand up and face her "take your panties down and tell me why you're being spanked," she'd say. I hated having to do that...voluntarily lower my underwear, explain WHY a grown man was being paddled, and then proceed back to receive my comeuppance.
Worst, of course, was showing up for a spanking with an erection in my panties...a definite no-no which had to be "taken care of" generally while she watched...as a man, you can imagine how it had to be "taken care of." Humiliating.
Anyway, just a thought...would you rather pull your own undies down or have her do it? The former shows your aquiescence while the latter shows her command.
Again, though it's been quite awhile since I've had my backside taken care of by a loving lady, I do enjoy your blog and hope you continue your good work.
Thanks!
Mark, formerly a submissive panty husband, now just a panty boy! ![Emoji]( "Emoji")
I had not thought of it, but really like that Mark thinks this blog is respectful.
bottoms up
