Sadly, Aunt Kay has passed away, after a battle with cancer.
You can read more and leave condolences at
The Disciplinary Wives Club was created by Aunt Kay. It was the FIRST OF IT'S KIND, and flourished .
It was my first introduction into the idea that a MAN CAN and SHOULD be spanked, if in a CONSENSUAL spanking relationship.
It extolled the positive effects spanking can have for a couple, but more than that Aunt Kay's writings explained the logic behind the spankings, and how to administer spankings.
Spanking is not something that is natural to people , in a loving relationship. One does not want to hurt their partner, but a spanking can effectively permit the spanked person to see the errors of their ways. This can usually lead to a change in their behavior that is advantageous for the relationship.
I purchased all of Aunt Kay's Lifestyle books, and Cindy read some of them also. We once met Aunt Kay and her husband Tomy in a restaurant for dinner, and we had a very lovely time. With everyone's agreement, we went back to their house to discuss the lifestyle more openly, and Aunt Kay demonstrated to Cindy how to use various implements on my bottom, and then Cindy practiced.
Prior to meeting , Cindy and I had communicated many times by email with Aunt Kay, It takes time for your partner to accept spanking you, if the thought is alien to their upbringing and way of thinking and living.
Reading Aunt Kay's site encouraged me to start the blog
which was one of a very few blogs about spanking at that time, and quite possibly the first blog written by a man. A good friend at the tiem wa Bonnie, who had recently started her blog
Without Aunt Kay, the spanking world would not be as spanking prolific and spanking SANE.
You can read more and leave condolences at
The Disciplinary Wives Club was created by Aunt Kay. It was the FIRST OF IT'S KIND, and flourished .
It was my first introduction into the idea that a MAN CAN and SHOULD be spanked, if in a CONSENSUAL spanking relationship.
Although not relevant to the woman being spanked by her partner, Aunt Kay had a big impact on me in finding that a woman could spank her husband. With her coherent and thoughtful writings, it made the idea that spanking in a marriage was permissible, and even desirable, if consensual. It almost meant that I was not totally insane, nor was I alone in these feelings.
It extolled the positive effects spanking can have for a couple, but more than that Aunt Kay's writings explained the logic behind the spankings, and how to administer spankings.
Spanking is not something that is natural to people , in a loving relationship. One does not want to hurt their partner, but a spanking can effectively permit the spanked person to see the errors of their ways. This can usually lead to a change in their behavior that is advantageous for the relationship.
I purchased all of Aunt Kay's Lifestyle books, and Cindy read some of them also. We once met Aunt Kay and her husband Tomy in a restaurant for dinner, and we had a very lovely time. With everyone's agreement, we went back to their house to discuss the lifestyle more openly, and Aunt Kay demonstrated to Cindy how to use various implements on my bottom, and then Cindy practiced.
Prior to meeting , Cindy and I had communicated many times by email with Aunt Kay, It takes time for your partner to accept spanking you, if the thought is alien to their upbringing and way of thinking and living.
Reading Aunt Kay's site encouraged me to start the blog
which was one of a very few blogs about spanking at that time, and quite possibly the first blog written by a man. A good friend at the tiem wa Bonnie, who had recently started her blog
Aunt Kay was a leader in the world of a man being spanked by his wife.
Thank you Aunt Kay...
You will be missed, but always remembered
Red and Cindy
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Mike and Lynn
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Mike and Lynn