spanking evolution

Many of us had the desire to be spanked long before we broached the topic with our partner.
We know that sometimes problems are solved easily with a little tenderness and love, but sometimes

Spanking evolves: We become more demanding in our desires, hoping that our partner will come to enjoy spanking us, not simply doing it as a chore or doing it for me. Our partner is doing it for our relationship to regain an even balance when something we have done has caused problems.

and as more times evolves
a happy spanker is our goal in a spanking relationship... your partner is problem solving
and here is the best definition for our wives (if they spank their partner)
but always remember
one spanking is sometimes not enough..i learned eventually the following exact situation
men will always be men,  and spankings are always necessary
bottoms up
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